I need some advice. My baby’s about to be 4 months old in a week. Me and my baby father just recently split up and I refuse to become one of those moms that hogs the kid and barely lets daddy see them. I know he’ll want to have her some days and even over night which I don’t have a problem with. My question is at what age? I mean I feel like she’s just so small still and I’m not sure how I’ll feel even when she’s a bit older. He hasn’t asked to take her yet but I’m not sure when he will want to or how to go about it. I just feel so attached & I work all week and a second job on weekends so I already spend a lot of time away from her and it hurts my heart. She sleeps in my bed, I can’t even imagine sleeping without her. Any advice? At what age did you feel comfortable doing this??
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I was in this predicament, I waited until 9 months until he could stay with his dad and even then he’s around his grandma and aunts so I felt more comfortable. Like above poster, waiting until eating and sitting up on their own I felt more comfortable with it. 😊 good luck mama!
She's a bit young for over night visits. I'd wait till shes able to eat baby food and move around freely and safely (meaning rolling back and forth with ease and can lift herself up) so you don't have to worry about her rolling on to her face and not being able to roll back. So maybe like 8m?
Iv never been in this position but what I would do is just wait until I felt comfortable enough for him to have her over night. Maybe offer day visits but hold off on over night visits until she’s older ❤️
I'd wait till 1 year for any over night visits. But Let him have all the day visits he'd like within reason lol.