Stop paying him attention since he wanna give his attention away. Problem is we pour into them so much and expect the same back. Impossible! Don’t look for behavior to change in any adult except if they want it. If he doesn’t get where your coming from sis he won’t. Trust me. I know 1st hand.
I’ve learned men are going to look just like us women notice an attractive man now there’s a difference in looking and starring but I would talk to him about it and let him know it bothers you
I agree with Prettyjazz98. I feel like all men and women are going to look at an attractive person of the opposite sex. It's human nature. My husband and I have come to this understanding. He'll see an attractive woman, look at her, compliment whatever feature he was admiring, and then tell me you look. Sometimes he wouldn't say anything to me. So when i catch him looking, i would ask him, "what do you think?". He'll laugh or smirk and tell me. (We've been together for a total of 5 years, but married for 1 year).
I used to get offended at first and then i realized i was wasting my time + energy. So i decided to encourage it and support it. Now he does it much less. Of course, you might not feel comfortable with it ever. So in that case, talk to him and come to a mutual understanding. ☺☺
I use to be that “kool ass chick” who commented and complimented women with my bf until I saw it made it ok for him to look and admire which made him comfortable. I ended up feelin like one of the guys. Funny thing is he’d never compliment the guys I thought were attractive when I did. Like I said, we aim to plz them but it doesn’t go the other way around. So u can take that advice and be the kool chick just know it doesn’t work both ways🤷🏾♀️
I've been with my dude nearly 7 years and that is one thing that I haven't caught him doing... Unless we're at the strip club and I bring a chick over to dance and even then he acts as if he's really not interested in looking lol! I think it's disrespectful to be staring at chicks while you're with me... But what I would do is start staring at dudes all the time and looking at dudes penis areas too lol!!! Or you can always slap the ish out of him and say, "Don't fu(king disrespect me!" I guess if it were me it would just depend on the day how I would react lol!!
Loe·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (25 нед.)
Why would he be doing that... He should never make you feel like that. I’d talk to him and tell him how you feel. Not cool
Kay·
Мама троих детей
I'm very jealous when it comes to my husband. I've never been jealous in any of my relationships until I got with him.
Push·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет)
Stop paying him attention since he wanna give his attention away. Problem is we pour into them so much and expect the same back. Impossible! Don’t look for behavior to change in any adult except if they want it. If he doesn’t get where your coming from sis he won’t. Trust me. I know 1st hand.
Jazmin Wright ·
I’ve learned men are going to look just like us women notice an attractive man now there’s a difference in looking and starring but I would talk to him about it and let him know it bothers you
No Longer In Use·
I agree with Prettyjazz98. I feel like all men and women are going to look at an attractive person of the opposite sex. It's human nature. My husband and I have come to this understanding. He'll see an attractive woman, look at her, compliment whatever feature he was admiring, and then tell me you look. Sometimes he wouldn't say anything to me. So when i catch him looking, i would ask him, "what do you think?". He'll laugh or smirk and tell me. (We've been together for a total of 5 years, but married for 1 year).
I used to get offended at first and then i realized i was wasting my time + energy. So i decided to encourage it and support it. Now he does it much less. Of course, you might not feel comfortable with it ever. So in that case, talk to him and come to a mutual understanding. ☺☺
Chyna·
В ожидании первенца
Look at other men 🤷🏽♀️
Push·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет)
I use to be that “kool ass chick” who commented and complimented women with my bf until I saw it made it ok for him to look and admire which made him comfortable. I ended up feelin like one of the guys. Funny thing is he’d never compliment the guys I thought were attractive when I did. Like I said, we aim to plz them but it doesn’t go the other way around. So u can take that advice and be the kool chick just know it doesn’t work both ways🤷🏾♀️
Kelley87·
I've been with my dude nearly 7 years and that is one thing that I haven't caught him doing... Unless we're at the strip club and I bring a chick over to dance and even then he acts as if he's really not interested in looking lol! I think it's disrespectful to be staring at chicks while you're with me... But what I would do is start staring at dudes all the time and looking at dudes penis areas too lol!!! Or you can always slap the ish out of him and say, "Don't fu(king disrespect me!" I guess if it were me it would just depend on the day how I would react lol!!