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@shaysobeautiful22, I have a friend that was with her baby daddy for years and years and he didn’t want to marry her. The excuse was that he didn’t believe in that, and that marriage was just a piece of paper. I told him: If it’s JUST a piece of paper and completely unimportant to you, WHY don’t you just do it to make her happy? Basically you will be doing some simple BS to please her. Then deep inside it must be important to you, when you actually don’t wanna do it.

And I told her in front of him: Next time you both meet someone, DON’T introduce him as your husband because he is NOT, right now he’s your boyfriend. Don’t do his laundry, don’t cook for him, don’t do his dishes, don’t fold and organize his clothes anymore, don’t support him nor treat him as a wife because you are NOT. Girlfriends are not supposed to do so. If he wants a WIFE he has to make you one. Not act like you are when you’re nothing.

He hated me so much that day.

Months later he proposed to her and got married. Not saying they did bc of what I said, but I guess it helped in something.

@astridoll thanks