So my daughters dad is so adamant about time and me sending photos all day long ect. Which is okay…

So my daughters dad is so adamant about time and me sending photos all day long ect. Which is okay up to a point, but keeps pushing off making a Skype so he can see her and video chat her.. keeps saying he will ect. Meanwhile she’s excited and FaceTimes my current boyfriend and his kids, my sister that’s traveling out of the country and one my best friends and LOVES it. She laughs and says hi and “love you”. It bothers me he blames me when I don’t send more than a few photos a day and argues with me but won’t make certain efforts that he says he will... But picks and chooses when to reply , it’ll be days after i send him something about her he replies and starts with the “you never keep me updated or photos or anything” one thing that boils my blood is he fights and argues and blames and spits so much fire at me because he sees her every other weekend , mind you I invited him to visit her countless times, never deny him if he wants to see her , but he doesn’t... in our order it says we are supposed to have alternate holidays, I honestly can’t remember the last holiday he took her. Halloween he was “sick” but managed to trick or treat with his sister and her kids. Thanksgiving he worked (BUT I offered him the weekend following and said he had car problems) Christmas he said he would drive a hour and half but not the extra 15 minutes because his car isn’t safe, and blames me that I should meet him. Granted yes, but I have no vehicle because I flipped my car in a bad accident in April of 2018 due to black ice and weather. He blames me for getting in a accident. I can’t afford a vehicle until tax time because I have no support from him and everything I work for goes towards our daughter. I’m just so tired of being the bad guy... he has it made. 25 lives with mom only has car payment/insurance and phone bill, and im 21 house, bills, food, clothing, gas ect on my own and he has no respect for all that I do for our daughter... I pray daily for him to grow up and respect me, as much as he makes my blood boil I never disrespect him... I’m scared for my daughter growing up around this ☹️