You ever want to just stop talking to so called family!?? 😞😞

@mamaof2babes, My whole family is stress and they didn’t even know I was pregnant when I cut them off. I cut them off because I have a 18 month old daughter and have never done shit. My sister has 3 kids and my mom spends more time with her than my own daughter, my sister even mentioned my miscarriages saying “you only hang with my son because you can’t have kids”, and my own mom kidnapped my daughter and she asked me all the time to see her which I’m allowing but if I’m around. I was tired of how I was getting treated.

omg your mom took your daughter?? I am so sorry. I really hope it gets better soon!!

yep, when she was 2 months old for 10 hours. I never allow my mom around my daughter alone ever since that.

Did it make you feel better?

in many ways, yes. There's always that lingering sadness deep down because its family, but less hurt, drama and frustration

Did it make you feel better after?

I felt better because I didn’t feel the pressure to be someone that I wasn’t. My brother was always pressuring me to do stuff and it left “MY” family out and benefited him and his family. But would never do anything In return to help me out and my mom didn’t care to help me out when I needed her the most she’s selfish, and my dad was never around

How’d you feel after?

I felt guilty .. but then I started thinking of all the stuff they did to me like they didn’t care for me at all they were ruining my life so I just had to let them go

@mamaof2babes, oh yea. I have less stress & anger cause of it. My life got so much happier after I got rid of the toxic family members.

thank you for responding. That makes me feel so much better about making this decision

you’re welcome! I know how much it sucks making this decision but once it’s done & that person is no longer taking up space in your life it’s all worth it & they’ll be replaced with someone you’ll be happy to call family.