My SO/baby’s father and I recently broke up. When the baby is born in May he knows he can come see him whenever he wants that’s not a problem but I’m nervous he’s gonna wanna take him places too early so I need opinions on how early I should kind of get a mind set for. Like for at least 2-3 weeks I don’t want him going anywhere is that asking too much? I want him safe obvi from sickness and if his family wants to see the baby before then I feel like they can come to me and baby...please share opinions!!
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The best thing you can do is make a custody agreement and file it. It protects you both and your baby. Let him bond with the baby so when he does want to take him out it won't be traumatic for the baby.
I wouldn’t let him take the baby at least until after it’s gotten first shots. You should make an agreement with him before Baby is born, so you both are on the same page. It also depends on whether baby will take a bottle or not. Some babies if they’re breastfeeding won’t take a bottle for a few months, some take it right away.
My Dr said keep them in for 2 months until their first set of shots.
Also it's very important to get a court ordered parenting plan. Otherwise he can take the baby and not bring him back