Help please my two year old daughter has always been a bit of a cry baby . But these past 3 days she screams and cry’s…

She sleeps with us in the bed along with her 4 year old brother we have always slept in the dark only way she will sleep . I gave her a bath and cereal befor bed so I can make sure she is full and nothing . These are just tantrums of her not wanting to go to bed ! And as far as my husband he says leave her until is fucken 3 in the morning and she ain’t close to sleeping ! The worse part is she wakes up early she’s def not getting enough sleep ! And we argue because I just let her cry I try and hold and hug her and she doesn’t want me to . She was sleeping and then all of sudden she will wake up out her sleep and start crying like she just took a power nap to cry all over again

Please don’t blame your arguments on your daughter. You’re both just frustrated but it isn’t her fault. Does she have night terrors? Maybe not enough to eat at dinner time? Have you had her ears checked for infection? There are also 2 year molars that come in around this time. She can probably feel your frustration which just makes it worse. Does she have a night light in her room and a white noise machine?

I know it's hard when you have a crying toddler but I'm sure seeing you guys fight doesn't help her or either one of you.

Do you think maybe she's scare of the dark? I'm sorry to hear your arguing with your husband but why are you guys fighting and not working together to figure out what's wrong with your baby girl?