I'm 24/7 with my children at home, I don't get a break for myself, my children have never gotten sick, and are always clean and well taken care of. I don't even leave the house except for them to take sunbaths. He spends a few days on vacation at home, and tonight I forgot to put the diaper cream on an unreachable place. The oldest grabs it the minute I get distracted and he calls me "neglectful", "careless". I understand he got scared and worried but he managed to make me feel like garbage just for that "slip". I'm so tired of his attitude.
My husband does the same thing! I clean up all the messes in the house including my husband’s messes which he’s the main mess maker in the house so my husband will make a mess and then say “I’m not doing my job” or “I’m horrible at cleaning” and I’m like seriously I just seen this mess that YOU made! 🤦🏻♀️🙄 I take care of/do everything for our son night and day without help and if our son is doing something my husband will say “you’re not even watching him” or “are you sure that’s okay?” or if our son falls he’ll say things like “that was your fault” or “he fell because you weren’t watching him” and I’m like seriously! He’s 9 months old just learning how to stand he’s gonna fall down or get hurt sometimes every kid does! But my husband loves to make me feel like crap for it! My husband can’t even handle watching our son for me so I can do the dishes or shower because he gets aggravated because when my son starts to fuss he doesn’t know what he wants, 🙄 it’s really not that difficult to figure out what he wants if he’d go through the list of things that baby’s need or want.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.

My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
Don’t let him make you feel bad. It’s just diaper cream. I can’t count the number of times my kids have gotten hold of something they weren’t supposed to and made a huge mess when I was doing something else..... it happens 🤷🏻♀️ we can’t always be looking directly at them 24/7.