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Linda Tsang
Linda Tsang
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I'm 24/7 with my children at home, I don't get a break for myself, my children have never gotten sick, and are always…

I'm 24/7 with my children at home, I don't get a break for myself, my children have never gotten sick, and are always clean and well taken care of. I don't even leave the house except for them to take sunbaths. He spends a few days on vacation at home, and tonight I forgot to put the diaper cream on an unreachable place. The oldest grabs it the minute I get distracted and he calls me "neglectful", "careless". I understand he got scared and worried but he managed to make me feel like garbage just for that "slip". I'm so tired of his attitude.

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nap.queen

Victoria Мама четверых детей

Don’t let him make you feel bad. It’s just diaper cream. I can’t count the number of times my kids have gotten hold of something they weren’t supposed to and made a huge mess when I was doing something else..... it happens 🤷🏻‍♀️ we can’t always be looking directly at them 24/7.

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amberdaugherty

Amber Jacq Мама сына-младенца, беременна (20 нед.)

My husband does the same thing! I clean up all the messes in the house including my husband’s messes which he’s the main mess maker in the house so my husband will make a mess and then say “I’m not doing my job” or “I’m horrible at cleaning” and I’m like seriously I just seen this mess that YOU made! 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 I take care of/do everything for our son night and day without help and if our son is doing something my husband will say “you’re not even watching him” or “are you sure that’s okay?” or if our son falls he’ll say things like “that was your fault” or “he fell because you weren’t watching him” and I’m like seriously! He’s 9 months old just learning how to stand he’s gonna fall down or get hurt sometimes every kid does! But my husband loves to make me feel like crap for it! My husband can’t even handle watching our son for me so I can do the dishes or shower because he gets aggravated because when my son starts to fuss he doesn’t know what he wants, 🙄 it’s really not that difficult to figure out what he wants if he’d go through the list of things that baby’s need or want.

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