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I’m 24 weeks pregnant with my 3rd boy first two boys were with a different dad I was never married too. He was abusive…

I’m 24 weeks pregnant with my 3rd boy first two boys were with a different dad I was never married too. He was abusive and a alcoholic I don’t have any family support near it took a lot but I left got my own place now I’m feeling stuck and alone in a simpler position. I wanted to be married before I got pregnant again. I already broke up with him kicked him out of my house but feel so alone. To think I’m a single mom again 🤦‍♀️Sad to think I’ll be alone giving birth to my son actually the baby dad wants to be there and made it very clear that no one is keeping him away from his son. He’s threatened me if another man is around his son that they will get hurt. I want nothing to do with him but feel stuck with him as he is my only help. He doesn’t have a job and on probation. I work full time and pay all the bills. I’m not getting any help from the state yet struggling. I’m not getting any child support from first baby dad. Yes I’ve learned that I pick men that are toxic. Lesson learned. #myfirstpost

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Welcome. Sorry to hear all you're going through best advice I can give you is to just keep 🙏🙏🙏. I hope everything turns around for the best for you and you're children.

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kaylakayyxoo

KayМама сына-младенца

You should let him be there for his child but as far as being with him I feel like you should let it go because it doesn’t sound like he’s stable enough right now and if anything he might try to come around and use you

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serenaj6

SerenaМама сына (4 года)

Why don't you want him to be there when you deliver or to be in the childs life at all?

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lclawson5803

Leigh

Of course I want him there but with his threats and breaking my property at my house when he gets mad makes me want nothing to do with him. I’m also stressed out about what last name to give my son. His or mine it makes me sad to know I don’t have the same last name as any of my kids now.

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sabi.bishh

Sabi

I pick the worst men too. Trust me. And if the house is under your name, call the cops on him. On probation you’re not supposed to have any police contact. And if you have proof of all the shit he says, that’ll help you even more. Get rid of him. He’s not helping to make your life any easier. Being alone sucks, I was during some of my pregnancies. But being alone is better than fighting, and taking care of a dead beat that should take care of you.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

Rant: My dad wants to give LO water!

Rant: My dad wants to give LO water! My dad keeps telling me to ask my sons doctor when i can give him water cause its getting hot. My son is 2 months! Uh no dad! I tell him he cant until after 1 year old (i think) but he still wants me to ask and give him some. Now i have to keep an eye on my dad to make sure he doesnt give him any. ??

Sorry for a little moan and rant here ladies, it's my due date and I cannot believe I haven't heard from my babies dad…

Sorry for a little moan and rant here ladies, it's my due date and I cannot believe I haven't heard from my babies dad atall. I knew he didn't want to be involved but it is heart breaking knowing that he really couldn't care less. Oh well, my boy will be well and truly loved by everyone around him and it's not my son loosing out, is his dead beat dad. More cuddles, kisses and precious mile stones for me to be proud of all alone 💙💙💙