I think I'm starting to get the breastfeeding aversions. I only bf her a few times a day. Usually wake up, maybe nap time, and bed time. But lately I don't want anything to do with it. She thinks I'm mad at her. Just because I don't want to breastfeed her.
Tell me if I'm wrong here. My husband's sil has covid. She's obviously quarantining in her house but is still loving on her kids and husband. I'm sorry but if I had it I would lock myself in a room. She hasn't gotten her kids tested... they're obviously doing the whole remote learning and quarantining for two weeks but she plans to send them back without testing them on the Monday after Thanksgiving 😬😱. My husband thinks I'm overreacting but I told him I don't want to see them on Christmas. I'm in the middle of iui cycles and don't want to risk this. Besides I don't think I could sit in a room with her knowing how irresponsible she has been not only with her family's health but those that are coming into contact with her and her family.
i'm getting my baby circumcised tomorrow & it makes me so sad. i want to do it but i don't want to see him hurting :( makes me cry every time i think about it
I don't care what ppl think of me, but I'm seriously considering putting my baby up for adoption. I love her with all of heart, but doing this alone is hard. Every single night she just screams to the top of her lungs and I do everything to soothe her. I don't know what to do at all. I wish I had some kind of help. I don't have a single ounce of help. I don't know a single soul in Minnesota either.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
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Yeah I’ve been dealing with that. I just want to shove him off of me, but I can’t bring myself to force him to wean. 😩
cherise··
Мама троих детей
Exact same here, it's tough. Especially middle of the night feedings, I cosleep with the toddler and he wakes up more then my newborn. 😧
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@zme060311, He only wakes up like once or twice now at night except the past few nights because he’s getting his molars so I’m hoping we can have him in his own bed, right next to ours, by the time this baby is born. I might never sleep again if not. 😩
cherise··
Мама троих детей
@bitchcraft oh..mine is getting molars too! So that explains him waking up several times. I have serious bags from lack of sleep with 2. Its tough. I sleep in a separate room with both of the littler ones and my boyfriend gets to sleep soundly which makes me want to throat punch him when I hear his ass snoring away. 😔
Yo mama·
Мама четверых детей
If you don’t want to breastfeed anymore don’t. I had to stop cold turkey at 14 months for my mental health. I don’t believe you should sacrifice your happiness to continue to breastfeed.
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I experienced this during night feeds and I couldn’t take it anymore. I ended up weaning her cold turkey. It’s been about 3 or 4 weeks now.
Athenia··
Мама дочки (1 год)
She is so mad at me. She ended up cuddling with her dad and giving me a look and went back to sleep after screaming. Shes really attached to breastfeeding. So I hope it isn't a huge deal when I stop.
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it honestly might be for a couple days but it’s up to you. I cried the last time I breastfed her because I didn’t want to stop. It was just getting hard on me emotionally to continue and knowing I was due in 2 months put a timeline on it