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Tessa Brooks
Tessa Brooks
Мама дочки (1 год)

I'm not sure if there's any teenage mothers on this site but if there is one question for y'all how…

I'm not sure if there's any teenage mothers on this site but if there is one question for y'all how did yall tell your parents you are pregnant? I'm 13 weeks & scared to death to tell my folks. Only my cousin, her mom, plus the dad know about the pregnancy. Idk if I'm in the right app, but thought I'd check it out. If there's another app for this please tell me. Thanks. #myfirstpost

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beakymcspence

Beaky Mcspence

В ожидании первенца

Welcome to the group❤️ How old are you? You already have one child so will your family really be that upset?

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Just be honest. You already have a daughter I see. How did you tell them about that pregnancy?

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brookstessa45

Tessa Brooks

Мама дочки (1 год)

They didn't find out about her til her first birthday. Once I found out I was pregnant, I left home & never returned cause my parents always said "you end up pregnant, your out of here" I want them to be apart of their life but not sure how to break it to them. This is probably stupid.

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Did they just let you leave without a care in the world?

I wouldn't tell them if that's the way they are. Regardless if you're a pregnant teen, they should still support you as their child.

My dad didnt always agree with my decisions or the fact I got pregnant at 17 but he was always supportive of my actions.

I say just let it be for now. Leave your pregnancy stress free.

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

To add, I didn't even tell my mom about my last pregnancy. She heard through the grape vine. She's also only met her when she was dying in the hospital. Not since though. Even though we're younger, we deserve respect too.

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adriannajme

Adrianna Kramer

Мама сына-младенца

I’m not a teenage mom but I’m sure if your parents want to be in their grandchildren’s lives they will come to their senses. How did they react to your first announcement?

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

They didn't know from what she's said. But they would have kicked her out.

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xmakayluhx

Deleted

I was 17 when I got pregnant with my daughter but I didn’t tell my parents at all. I posted on Facebook and was going to tell my dad but my mom told him and I wasn’t going to tell her at all since she abandoned me at 14 years old. I’m pregnant again and no one knows I’m pregnant again. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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brookstessa45

Tessa Brooks

Мама дочки (1 год)

See my mom is the only person I used to be close with but somehow after I got with my baby daddy she stopped being close with me or helping me. I don't understand it. He's there for us, he works, he provides for us, he has never abandoned us. So it's like this time around I don't wanna tell them but then I don't know. Mixed emotions.

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xmakayluhx

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Don’t tell them it won’t change anything and if you don’t want to tell them, don’t.

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delete-please

Delete Please.

I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant and my parents were also strict like yours sound. I think that since you already have a baby and they missed out on seeing her grow up maybe they’ll be understanding and more accepting. My advice for situations like these are always just to sit down with them and be completely honest there really isn’t a special way or less stressful way to tell them. If they’re upset they’ll eventually get over it and love you and you baby regardless. I was scared to tell my parents as well and they were pissed but they got over it and I’m sure your parents will do the same. I always tell girls the sooner you tell them the sooner you can relax and just enjoy your pregnancy without the worries and anxiety it gives you holding it in even writing it on a paper or texting them is a good idea if you feel you can’t verbally tell them.

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doubleksmommy

Amber☄

Мама двоих (1 год, 12 лет)

If you are not living with them ...I'd wait a little while and tell them when the time is right and everyone is in a good space. Enjoy it, don't stress. I mean you already have one kid they know about now, so I don't think it should be a big deal.

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

I did it the wrong way so I won't recommend that. As a parent myself now... I would want my child to approach me and be honest. I'd want her to tell me her plan, what she's going to do, and be open.

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