I made my boyfriend watch child birth videos with me last night so he can stop asking why I’m scared to give birth lol
I’m planning on trying to do everything naturally but if I can’t take it I’ll just get the epidural lol I’m dramatic with pain so more than likely I’m going to get the epidural lol
I’m just scared of the vaginal tearing @girlmom. Watching doesn’t scare me so much .
Well if you decide to get an epidural you shouldn’t feel it if it happens. Some people don’t tear at all. I had to get one stitch with my first two but nothing with my last one. I had my last one completely natural and it is definitely a lot more than when you do it with an epidural so I suggest getting one lol.
Start doing keegles. I mean anyone can tear but I did them the last half, birthed a 10lb child and didn't tear
Also they can massage the area that could tear. Atleast that's what I've heard.