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Mahayla VanZile
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So my now ex-husband left me because I told him I didn’t want him going to a strip club. I don’t know how to feel about…

So my now ex-husband left me because I told him I didn’t want him going to a strip club. I don’t know how to feel about this.

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mahaylavanzile

Mahayla VanZile

That and I bought him three different vehicles. I put clothes on his back. I helped his mom with bills (I love her) and dealt with him body shaming me. When I first bought our house he began to abuse me and threaten to kill me. He’s choked me and and pushed me down to the point I broke my wrist. I should’ve left when that happened and I regret not leaving. But I do love that our son came out of this horrible situation.

blueismycolor

Blue IsMyColor

Мама троих детей

Girl, I know it’s hard, but be glad he’s gone. You don’t need that around your baby.

scx

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Everything that he’s put you through will and HAS made you a strong person. He’s a piece of shit who deserves to be alone. Hell realize that when you’re finally happy and rid of him. While he’s gone, see if you can call your mom or dad to help change your locks. Since you bought the house, it’s yours and he doesn’t belong in there.

mahaylavanzile

Mahayla VanZile

my dad died when I was 13 and I think that’s what is making it hard for him to understand I don’t need him. I know how to change them. I’ll be going to the home improvement store in just a little bit. I’m letting my little man take a short nap.

scx

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You’re a strong beautiful human being and he’s not worthy of having you. I’m glad you realized that, I’m sorry you have to go through this honestly. He’s gonna regret it.

mahaylavanzile

Mahayla VanZile

He’s made me feel so worthless and stupid in our relationship. Instead of him providing for us I have provided for him and our son. He’s had two jobs while being with me and has worked for a total (both jobs) a week and a half.

mahaylavanzile

Mahayla VanZile

I’m not sad about it at all. I think I’ve been noticing who he really was and just slowly lost feelings for him. When we got together I was a total different person. And I’m now going to work on being myself again for my son and I.

mahaylavanzile

Mahayla VanZile

He left. He tried keep my house key and car keys from me.

laniejay

Lanie Jay

Feel thankful he didnt waste any more of your time. Change the locks. Lock the bank account. Get a parenting plan in place.

bodybycheetos

BakingDaddy

You posted earlier right? About the bachelor party?

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Different user i think

mychemicalshaymance

Shay

Time to change those locks.

Get a parenting plan in order and move on with your life.

He showed what is more important. Good riddance imo.

lii94

Lisa

Lmao what a tool. Better off without that kind of drama anyway

rndmshtt

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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (27 нед.)

If he left because of that, well then he wasnt worth being with if that’ll all it takes for him to cut a relationship off.

mahaylavanzile

Mahayla VanZile

He has packed most of his stuff and is now leaving. He took my house key though. Looks like I’ll have to change it out.

thebthatdontcare

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Sounds like your way better off without and he has some growing up to do!

boymama.

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Good riddance id say.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.