So my husband got into it last night. He consistently ask me who I’m talking to on my phone all the time or if someone calls me, who is that or what you guys talking about… I was messaging a fellow mom last night and he threw a holy hell fit because I told him it was none of his business who I was texting. I don’t have to tell him who I talk to you 24/7. He cries over the dumbest stuff. If I don’t say I love you right, there’s obviously something wrong with me. He expects me to say I love him every hour. I do not have time for this baby stuff.
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I don't see why its bug deal to tell him? My husband asks once in a while out of curiosity and I tell him. Why do I care? Nothing to hide, it's a conversation starter, etc. I ask him sometimes. If I responded like you did, or vice versa - we'd have problems. Seems like the communication issues are on both ends.
@laniejay, that’s why we go to therapy. And no I have not. I barely even text my friends cause of him let alone any other guys.
@joe_mama2712 I didnt necessarily mean you, past traumatic relationship? Or is he a cheater?
@laniejay, no he’s far from unfaithful. No, not any past traumatic relationship. Counselor thinks insecurities possibly.
Let me tell you, it’s pointless unless both people are completely open to suggestions to better your relationship.
Guilty conscience??? Sounds like my BF
Idk what his deal is. We’ve even been going to counseling for everything. I’m at the point where I just want to say f*** it
@joe_mama2712 I know what you mean.my bf and I are thinking about going to counseling too. Just haven't made that step yet.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do
I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and a...
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I felt flutters last night!💜 (anyone who is going to be rude, don’t comment)
I’d probably react the same way if my husband told me it was none of my business. I ask my husband about who’s calling him and such bc I’m just plain nosey and it something to talk about. Lol it doesn’t mean I don’t trust him. Sounds like he doesn’t feel loved if he needs reassurance often. Do you spend too much time on your phone perhaps?