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So my husband got into it last night. He consistently ask me who I’m talking to on my phone all the time or if someone…

So my husband got into it last night. He consistently ask me who I’m talking to on my phone all the time or if someone calls me, who is that or what you guys talking about… I was messaging a fellow mom last night and he threw a holy hell fit because I told him it was none of his business who I was texting. I don’t have to tell him who I talk to you 24/7. He cries over the dumbest stuff. If I don’t say I love you right, there’s obviously something wrong with me. He expects me to say I love him every hour. I do not have time for this baby stuff.

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massmomma16

MassMomma16Мама дочки (2 года)

I’d probably react the same way if my husband told me it was none of my business. I ask my husband about who’s calling him and such bc I’m just plain nosey and it something to talk about. Lol it doesn’t mean I don’t trust him. Sounds like he doesn’t feel loved if he needs reassurance often. Do you spend too much time on your phone perhaps?

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

I don't see why its bug deal to tell him? My husband asks once in a while out of curiosity and I tell him. Why do I care? Nothing to hide, it's a conversation starter, etc. I ask him sometimes. If I responded like you did, or vice versa - we'd have problems. Seems like the communication issues are on both ends.

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joe_mama2712

JoesphineМама двоих (младенец)

@laniejay, that’s why we go to therapy. And no I have not. I barely even text my friends cause of him let alone any other guys.

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laniejay

Lanie JayМама троих детей

@joe_mama2712 I didnt necessarily mean you, past traumatic relationship? Or is he a cheater?

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joe_mama2712

JoesphineМама двоих (младенец)

@laniejay, no he’s far from unfaithful. No, not any past traumatic relationship. Counselor thinks insecurities possibly.

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joe_mama2712

JoesphineМама двоих (младенец)

Let me tell you, it’s pointless unless both people are completely open to suggestions to better your relationship.

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

Guilty conscience??? Sounds like my BF

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joe_mama2712

JoesphineМама двоих (младенец)

Idk what his deal is. We’ve even been going to counseling for everything. I’m at the point where I just want to say f*** it

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

@joe_mama2712 I know what you mean.my bf and I are thinking about going to counseling too. Just haven't made that step yet.

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