It drives me so mad when my husband watches me take the laundry upstairs then new sheets down stairs and make the bed and all he does is WATCH then asks me why I seem pissed off... well hmmm could it be because it wouldn’t kill you to offer to help? Damn! I know I technically could just ask him to help me but every once in awhile it’s nice if you just offer or do instead of me having to always ask! Ugh! Rant over! Sorry.
Yess lol last night i got big box of diapers and had like two other bags in the other hand i am 21 weeks pregnant and im huge lol he was going to let me carry it up but i told him so What your going to make me carry this up all by my self
He can't read your mind. I bet if you tell him you'd be really grateful if he offerred to help more he would do it. Then you wouldnt have to be passive aggressive and he wont have to wonder why you're frustrated. Sometimes our SO need help in keeping us happy.
@nyoung1006 Sit down and talk to him about it. Again. I can see why you're annoyed.
@divinely_favored, I finally talked to him and he did say what you did that he can’t read my mind and I need to just ask and I explained to him that I do understand that and I’ll start doing that more that I just want him to also see where I’m coming from that it’s frustrating when he stands there and watches me make the bed and sees me struggling he could just help.
@nyoung1006 This is great! So glad you were able to communicate.
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
Is there a show that you like so much that you could just watch it over and over!? That show for me is the 100, absolutely love this show!!!
I had some woman on here follow me then asked if we could talk. asked how far along I was, I told her then asked what kind of phone I had I told her asked why then she asked for my number.... I told her as nicely as I could that "I don't know you, so no" it was weird and creepy! I don't mind talking to people on here but just to be so forward like that has me suspicious of her intentions. Am I being to paranoid or would you do the same?! lol...
Up early still reeling from my last OB appointment. My MIDWIFE tried to force me into a cervical exam and Pap smear. 1) I just met you lady. You are not sticking your fingers inside of me. 2) they are both COMPLETELY UNNECESSARY have been known to cause miscarriages at my stage in pregnancy and offer zero benefits whatsoever. These "abnormal cells" that could show up in them are actually normal during pregnancy and can change throughout. They are invasive, UNNECESSARY and its rude to even ask me...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I feel the same way all the time!