It drives me so mad when my husband watches me take the laundry upstairs then new sheets down stairs and make the bed and all he does is WATCH then asks me why I seem pissed off... well hmmm could it be because it wouldn’t kill you to offer to help? Damn! I know I technically could just ask him to help me but every once in awhile it’s nice if you just offer or do instead of me having to always ask! Ugh! Rant over! Sorry.
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Yess lol last night i got big box of diapers and had like two other bags in the other hand i am 21 weeks pregnant and im huge lol he was going to let me carry it up but i told him so What your going to make me carry this up all by my self
He can't read your mind. I bet if you tell him you'd be really grateful if he offerred to help more he would do it. Then you wouldnt have to be passive aggressive and he wont have to wonder why you're frustrated. Sometimes our SO need help in keeping us happy.
@nyoung1006 Sit down and talk to him about it. Again. I can see why you're annoyed.
@divinely_favored, I finally talked to him and he did say what you did that he can’t read my mind and I need to just ask and I explained to him that I do understand that and I’ll start doing that more that I just want him to also see where I’m coming from that it’s frustrating when he stands there and watches me make the bed and sees me struggling he could just help.
@nyoung1006 This is great! So glad you were able to communicate.
I feel the same way all the time!