Okay sooo got into and argument with my husband about smoking in the house.. he doesn't believe kids can be harmed by…

Babies that are around cigarette smoke are more likely to die from SIDS. Being a premie is additional risk factor. He needs to do some research or let your doc tell him.

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I had the same argument he says I want to change him 😒

I wouldn't allow it either....I'd raise hell. Whether his other baby mamas allow it or not it for sure wouldn't be going on in the home for my children. He's selfish for that.

Honestly I think he knows it is harmful but since he is addicted to it he doesn’t care that it is. I don’t mean this in a rude way

I agree with bringing it up at your next doctors appointment. It’s not safe for babies to breathe that in, or for you while pregnant!

You aren’t wrong in getting upset with him.. he should smoke outside; out of their sight. Second hand smoke can do much more harm. Vaping is an alternative to help start the process of quitting. There’s patching, mints, other things. I’m sorry you and your kids are dealing with someone so stubborn. What’s his reason aside from addiction?

I’d bring him to the next doctors appointment and ask the doctor. They will straighten him out. We don’t even allow people to step out to smoke when visiting us, if they need to smoke, it’s the end of the visit. We ease up after baby turns 1, but still do not allow them around people smoking. And besides health issues, smoking inside is just gross, it’s not even good for the house!

Going through this battle with people who don't think.. I know he tried me tonight saying its to cold going to smoke in the car.. i was like I be d@mn. I have showed him causes of smoke for babys and he won't listen.

This ticks me off too. He promised to stop smoking in the car before baby. Well baby is here early.

Print out some of the info on second hand smoke. It really is damaging. Kids shouldnt have to breath it in.