Okay so..
I have 3 high risk doctors.
2 don't want me to pass 34 weeks and don't want to let me go home bc I have 2 weeks with my water broken.
The other doc wants to send me home tomorrow and come back the day of my c section and wants to keep my pregnant till 36 weeks.
I told him I don't want to go home bc I'm scared to bleed again and I live kinda far from the hospital.. but he said if I have no bleeding or if I don't leak by tomorrow morning he wants me to go home .. I have 4/5 days till I turn 34 and I honestly don't want to risk going home .
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@laniejay, I’m gob smacked...did your membranes rupture or have you had a slow leak....@olga.vlaa ?
My membranes ruptured already and when the nurse checked with the q-tip thing it had blood and I was told that once that happens I cant leave the hospital and now this doc wants to send me home .
Tell him you want another opinion and your not leaving till you get it.
I did I told them I wanna talk to all 3 doc bc 2 of them don't want to risk sending me home and this one doea.
I've seen moms on preemie forums have ruptured waters and stay pregnant until theres an issue, sometimes that even meant to term.
Not once have I ever seen someone with ruptured waters go home prior to delivery.
@laniejay Idk what a level 3 NICU is and yes I wanna transfer this hospital isn't working out
@olga.vlaa level 3 is a more specific NICU that can handle complicated cases. Ruptured waters since what? 29-30 weeks? That can cause complications you want a better NICU for. I'd look into a transfer ASAP
@laniejay I'm honestly going to talk to my nurse rn and tell her I want to transfer .. I don't wanna risk going home 🤦♀️ ugh this stresses me out i wanna ball my eyes out.
Yes I came in the 21 of dec for bleeding and literally the next morning my water broke.
@sandycheekz.mom ik I told them I don't want to go home and he says I'm fine just to come back the day of my c section.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Okay, mommas I need to vent to someone please..
So my fiance goes to his Co workers house (female) at 1:30pm to leave for work, they work about 55 mins from home.. she doesn't have to be there till 3pm.. and he doesn't have to start till 4pm... they usually get off at 1:30am. Now they moved it to 2:00am.. (what he says.) He doesn't get home till 4:00am.... am I wrong for wondering why it takes so long for him to get home??? I want to mention something but I know he will get real defensive about...
I was thinking about it when I go into labor I think imma go live on fb threw the whole thing till I have to push lol that would be cool right or weird lol let me know I'll add you on fb if you want lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Please help!
My doctor is trying to induce me before 40 weeks because she's going to be off on my due date and says my placenta is starting to look old. How do I get labor started?? I don't want to be induced for no reason and I'm thinking I won't have a choice. Please help. What do I do to get things going?
Way too risky you should stay and keep checking your amniotic fluid level