He really is amazing 🖤 when I tell him how much I appreciate it all he says why that’s my job in their dad 😭 he took them outside to play for a while in the backyard a bit ago so I could finish deep cleaning the house without them running around lol he said it’s nice out I’m gonna take them outside so you can clean and they can play 😍

I’m one of the lucky ones, my hubby helps with the kids and around the house, I do 9999% house work but occasionally he will see that I’m stressed or tired and he’ll get up and clean the whole house without me asking for help. He’s great with helping with the kids though, he gives them baths, helps with bed time, watches them when I have to go somewhere and let’s me nap. I am definitely a lucky one!

Mine just started helping with our son after we took a trip to visit his family and he got to see how much I actually do. So he was up cleaning until 11 last night just so I'd wake up to a clean house 🤗 it takes some work to get them to realize that they need to help. Just stick to your guns and it works if I give my husband notice and a deadline. Like "hey can you fold and put away the clothes by the end of the weekend please" be positive and reinforce the good behavior

Men are basically useless 🙄 he’ll get better as she gets older if you stick to your guns about it. I do 99.9999% of the work with our daughter. Her dads never even given her a bath. She’s 15 months old lol but I make sure he knows that and that when I ask him to help, he better fucking help no questions asked & do it my way or I’ll just do it myself & think bad about him because he couldn’t handle it. Having a child together has definitely tested our relationship though. I never thought that when the baby came, he’d be one of those dads that barely helped.. come to find out it’s pretty normal from a man. It shouldn’t be and there are plenty of awesome men who do help out with their kids though. But I feel you girl. Just be strong for your baby and keep taking good care of her. Regardless of what part her father has in it, you’re her mother & she needs you more than anyone.