Is it just me or after you have a baby does your significant other just not have sex with you? Bc I’m to the point where I’m laying in bed crying bc I don’t feel attractive or pretty or feel like I’m good enough anymore.
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He just goes I’m tired. Well he doesn’t go to bed till like 3:30 so yeah I’d be tired too but maybe he could come to bed earlier. 🙄
I know ur saying that comment bc ur SO is making u feel not to good but honestly my SO acts like he wants me a lot then at the time I’m trying to do it he doesn’t go for it.. n I personally feel like it’s bc sex in painful for me still at first it takes some time now to get going, n I think he feels kinda bad in hurts so much. Have u had sex with him yet? Have u expressed any pains maybe to him to make him feel like he’s not pleasing u? Maybe he’s still just processing having a baby be around or is baby in the room? Some guys get freaked out.
Either way I’m sorry hun, don’t feel bad ur probly got hormones bouncing around still.. it’s not u stuff like this happens don’t be sad don’t overthink, tlk to him
He’s in his own room now the baby. But he says he wants to have sex then he waits for me to fall asleep to come in the room so he doesn’t have to have sex with me. So tonight/this morning took care of it myself😊 and if he wants to get mad once he sees I’m doing it myself I don’t really care
@beyond_beautifulx3, do he say anything abt it? Have u spoke up and called him out on it, bc I would, I’d want some answers. Has it been really long since you two have done the deed lol and rofl 🤣 don’t blame ya, u should do what u do everyday let ur dude think ur sleeping n let him catch u in the act and if he doesn’t jump into it then somethings off wit him then
Do you ever just go for It? Im preggers now and my husband doesn't come to me as much and I ask him why and he says he doesn't know if I'm in pain that day or how I'm feeling mentally so he waits for me to come to him. So I just go for It when I want it! Maybe your SO is being considerate knowing you have a little one and may be tired or have a lot on your mind so he's probably thinking it's best you come to him when you're ready instead of him being selfish knowing moms go through a lot more than dad's. And nothing turns a man on more than when you initiate it 😉