I was complaining of pressure and pain down there so my DR checked me today and she looked shocked and said "Oh gosh wow you're already 3cm." I didn't think it was that uncommon ? 🤔
They may want to check you in any subsequent pregnancies as that is early to dilate that much. It could mean something, it could be nothing. Warrants closer monitoring though. Hopefully baby bakes a bit more.
She said she will check me next week again if I want to be but she isn't concerned because I can stay at 3cm for awhile.
@aileenquinter123 it's not concerning in a way... I was 4.5cm for weeks. However, early dilation to that extent is something to make note of in future pregnancy
I was “2-3” at 36 weeks with my first two kids. I was induced at 38 weeks with both of them for medical reasons
Yeah she said they won't let me go past 39 weeks so me being 3cm isn't bad it will help me along with the induction if I don't go before hand.
I was 2cm at 36 weeks, gave birth at 36+4. I was told no heavy lifting and no sex but that didn’t work
She just said they aren't letting me go past 39 because I take insulin and because I'm already 3cm she thinks I will go before then.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I wasnt 3cm till hours in labour made a long labour