Hello everyone.. I came on here because I am at a lost. My husband and I have a 15 month old and one on the way.. he spends up to 5 hours away every day or more hanging out with his friends.. like he is a single man. The bigger I get the harder it gets to take care of my 15 month old on my own..lifting her up or just picking up after her can be a challenge I am always tired.. and still going through morning sickness this far along... but I love my little girl so it pushes me to work hard as I should... I have talked to him about this and he still wont change..he is a good dad when he decides to hang out with her..but only when he feels like it..on his terms like he has a choice on when to jump in.. unlike me who doesnt have a choice.. I have been the only parent in the house even tho we live together. This baby wasn't planned and I believe he doesnt care about this pregnancy because he didnt want it at all. We always been having alot of arguments and he uses hating me right now not to care about my well being or the babies.. even as I am writing this he has left again. I believe he is cheating.
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This would absolutely be a huge no for me! What the hell is he doing for that many hours? I would myself believe he’s cheating as well. Either he needs to get it together, and be a proper husband and father or you need to leave his ass.
He claims that all he does is sit and talk to his homie and smoke and stuff.. but he is doing this everyday... I understand needing to get out and once in awhile but not everyday.. and plus he is showing me that he doesnt care if it looks like cheating..
Wish I could like your comment a baZILLION times!!
Does he work? I'm only asking cause if he's spending up to 5 hours a day "hangin out" with his friends AND has a job, I don't see how you'd EVER get to spend time as a family! Like, all that and a decent night's sleep and your outta hours! Idk if I can say he's cheating or not but he's DEFINITELY not acting like a married man with a family! Keep in mind that your baby girls are gonna believe "this is what a relationship is supposed to look like" based on what they grow up watching you do and how they observe you being treated is how they will expect to me treated mama. I wish you the VERY BEST of luck girl.
Yes he works.. he gets off at 6pm and leaves out after being home for 35 mins.. and will spend all that time hanging out.. when he gets back.. I try to talk to him and tell him how wrong that is in a come way and he says he needs to wake up in the morning and doesnt want to talk. I use work myself stopped working a few months ago
Cause of how many hours he is way every day.. I understand doing this twice a week so u can get out the house.. but this is everyday.. plus he cheated on his last girlfriend before me. And that means he is capable of it
This doesn’t sound like a man. This sounds like a child. If you’re already doing all of the work, might as well make it official. Kick his ass out.