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Samantha
Samantha
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there is nothing more annoying than when someone makes plans with you and constantly cancels. I've tried hanging out…

there is nothing more annoying than when someone makes plans with you and constantly cancels. I've tried hanging out with her 4 times and every single time she or her son magically wake up sick over night. I get things happen but 2 of those times were in a few days of each other. If you don't have any intentions of hanging out with someone stop agreeing to it! Why do I bother trying 😒 Rant over.

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xryztalroze

XryztalRoze

There are few things worse than a fickle friend. Stop making plans with her. It will never get better. Better to know where you stand with someone and draw the line than to keep getting hurt.

sammiet2013

Samantha

Мама дочки-младенца

you're absolutely right ❤

lily79

Lisa

Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)

Agree! Sometimes you need to cut your losses.

sammiet2013

Samantha

Мама дочки-младенца

I have a "best friend" that does this also. I was the only one who ever made an effort to talk or hang out eventually I stopped making that effort and we didn't talk for months

lily79

Lisa

Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)

we live 3 hours away from each other now, but we meet in the middle as there's lots to do there, and I am always the one to suggest we do something. It's hard not talking or seeing her, but it's harder on me to feel neglected or ignored. (I can't think of the right word)

sammiet2013

Samantha

Мама дочки-младенца

I completely understand that feeling! we live not even 15 minutes away from each other and we never see each other. she's only seen my daughter 1 time since we left the hospital after she was born. she doesn't have kids so I understand it's kinda different but it still sucks! It's nice that your able to meet up at least and spend some time together! if only she would reciprocate the initiation of making plans

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