I’m really debating about staying here in Jacksonville and get myself together but I don’t have any family here to help me me and my boyfriend we stay with his mom , but my mom think I should come back so I can get my self together she was gonna help me get my license and get me a car but Albany is like 4 hours away from my boyfriend , I just need to get my life together what y’all think I should go to Albany with my family and get myself together or just stay here and get myself together??
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@amirjamal074, I'm never the one to tell a woman to leave her man. But what I will say is if he's unable to help you get your things in order then if it were me I'd go stay with my mom. I never needed a rich guy but if all fails the least he can do is provide us with a place and me with transportation. Hell help me get in it and I can maintain it lol!
@torrilove14, thank you bhoo I will surely message you !♥️
@torrilove14, right it’s time to put a stop to it I want my son to have a better life and look up to me and not worry about anything & his dad think I’m gonna be cheating and it aggravates me I’m not gonna be worried about no man I’m worried about me and my son life honestly
Now its gonna be hard but we're made for it. A lot of praying&& many nights wondering how you gone do it, but you will b/c your baby see no wrong in you&& You show him no struggle..
That's the definition of a mother hun.
So keep your head up&& stand firm. Don't let him guilt trip you..
You ever need to talk feel free to msg me ☺
You got this
@jacobsmama2018, @torrilove14, I totally agree
If he trys to talk you against it or gets upset that you're tryna take these steps to better yourself instead of being understanding.
Then he's not for you, no one should get in the way of your child&& your livelihood..
I had to learn through experience&& its no fun, trust me.
You have to do what's best for you& your family.
Go get yourself together so you won't have to depend on anyone..
At the end of the day, he leave you still have to provide for your child.
I'm speaking as a single mother, always be prepared.
Go where your help is..
That's just my opinion
Albany GA is where I live. Girl, this place is hell. Not many opportunities to be had. But do what your head says is right. Listening to our hearts can fuck us up sometimes. Make sure you have a solid plan where the benefits outweigh the negatives. Pray about it and talk about. You'll know what to do.