I am so beyond stressed out. We’ve been struggling to find work and have been living off my daughters ssi for rent which…
I am so beyond stressed out. We’ve been struggling to find work and have been living off my daughters ssi for rent which I’m still going to be $35 short on and my child $64 a week support for my car payment which is still not enough. We are flat broke just spent the last $40 I had on my link card for a week of groceries until we get our link month on the 7th. Idk how I’m gonna make this stretch but I just got s bunch of noodles etc. I am beyond depressed. Can’t pay bills can’t find work can’t find help barely able to feed my family at the moment. I just wanna hide in bed and say screw it. But that’s not an option, my kids need me. I’m just so done y’all I can’t handle this anymore it’s been this way for almost 3 months when will I catch a damn break.
Samantha Mccarty·
Мама сына (1 год)
Hang in there momma. Weve been there before. It's much easier to find a job when you have a job for some reason. Have him go out of his comfort zone. Hospitals will hire for environmental services at no experience. Night shift gets extra and you dont have to deal with people. Telecommunications companies usually hire you if you just apply. They are generally desperate because no one wants to do it. Go to the zoo for clean up crew. Stop at mom and pop shops (garages, metal shops, convenient stores, restaurants, grocery stores) and ask if you can do anything like clean the bathroom, stock shelves, take out trash. Go to lumber stores and ask if they need help unloading/moving stock. Find places that are moving (like an rv or car dealership) and ask if they need help loading their equipment. Places that usually hire anyone are like
-metals
-fencing
-Telecommunications
-yard maintenance
-janitors
Heck even if its digging holes for the cemetery.
You could go to dollar tree (do they have those? Any dollar store.) And get stuff to make wreaths. You buy $10 worth of materials and sell a wreath for 30-60. You can do any kind of craft really, wreaths are just easy.
Go to churches, all the churches. Chances are someone will have a job lead. They can also help with clothing, food, Bill's and even rent. Some even offer gas cards.
Goodwill has job offering services too. (Not sure if you have one of those.)
We have a place called emergency infant services. They help with food, clothes, furniture, formula, ect. Check for something like that.
Ask the community. If you dont have a Facebook make one. Go to a community page and ask for help. There is always going to be someone who has extra of something and is willing to help out. Even if it's just knowledge about resources to help.
Theres help out there. Dont loose hope momma. You did this for the best for your babies. You will figure it out, you can do it. But you have to stay strong.
Shay·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Question...why did you get another cat if you're struggling? You have 2 others as well?
Kandace Teresa··
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
we’re more than likely going to have to rehome her anyway she doesn’t get along with our cats and is scared of the kids but I took her for now so she wasn’t left for dead. I’m not heartless I do what I can for anyone and anything.
Shay··
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
It will be down the road.
Kandace Teresa··
Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна
She was going to be thrown in the cold I wouldn’t let that happen, I already had a huge bag of cat food so that wasn’t an issue for us.