Nothing he does it and or asks what I did while I was and we move on with our day. Oddly enough my husband will not get into arguments with me when he’s mad he goes into our room and does his thing then come out and kisses me and we move on. Idk if it’s the military in him or what but we have only been in 4 arguments in the past 3 years

I guess it depends on the circumstances. Like asking is different than telling. What happens if you don't agree and choose not to? Do you have to ask permission for things? What happens if you don't?

Not really questions to answer, just points to think about.

There's power in submission. I'm a submissive wife, however, my husband is a respectable man and doesn't abuse that.

I do with certain things. I'm still a stay-at-home mom I've been for 5 years. Usually when it comes to the house though like where things go where not to put things Etc I tell him because the house is my domain. But he's asked me to help him save money with bills and things like that so I try to maintain electricity a lot and have most things on a schedule so that they're not overused like laundry in baths/showers etc. Now when it comes to me going out and doing things or going out with friends I just do it because my daughter is always with me so it's usually just play dates the kids will play and my friends and I will chat. Same for them coming over we just do it I don't ask

People who ask you that are usually jealous and miserable in their relationships. There's nothing wrong with taking care of your man and showing him that he is appreciated. 💙