I hate when people ask me why I do everything that my husband ask/tells me to do. Well because he provides for this family yes i take care of the kids all day and clean but he works long hours if it wasn’t for him we would not have a roof over our head food in our stomach or a things to wear. If we could afford babysitting I would work but because we can’t at the moment he does it all for us that’s why the least I can do is try and make his day a little smoother and a little brighter.
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I guess it depends on the circumstances. Like asking is different than telling. What happens if you don't agree and choose not to? Do you have to ask permission for things? What happens if you don't?
Not really questions to answer, just points to think about.
There's power in submission. I'm a submissive wife, however, my husband is a respectable man and doesn't abuse that.
My husband has never hit me and the most he’s ever raised his voice at me is when I hit my head and had blood coming out and he yelled at me to stop walking around and sit down and relax. And IV always asked that’s the way my father and step mother are so I just do it. It’s very rare that he says no
@mrs.dahlin abuse is more than hitting and yelling. I'm not saying your husband is abusive, just clarifying a point. What if you didnt comply with what he asked? Or if he said no and you chose to anyways?
I do with certain things. I'm still a stay-at-home mom I've been for 5 years. Usually when it comes to the house though like where things go where not to put things Etc I tell him because the house is my domain. But he's asked me to help him save money with bills and things like that so I try to maintain electricity a lot and have most things on a schedule so that they're not overused like laundry in baths/showers etc. Now when it comes to me going out and doing things or going out with friends I just do it because my daughter is always with me so it's usually just play dates the kids will play and my friends and I will chat. Same for them coming over we just do it I don't ask
People who ask you that are usually jealous and miserable in their relationships. There's nothing wrong with taking care of your man and showing him that he is appreciated. 💙
It’s so annoying they always say he’s “controlling” because he asks me to do stuff and I just do it. Like I’m sorry i didn’t know I was supposed to be selfish and self centered. That and sometimes I ask him “hey can go go out tonight with so and so” or “hey can so and so come over” it’s not because I have to it’s because I want to know if we got money for me to be doing that or to make sure he’s not tired from working all day and wants to come home to a quite house
Nothing he does it and or asks what I did while I was and we move on with our day. Oddly enough my husband will not get into arguments with me when he’s mad he goes into our room and does his thing then come out and kisses me and we move on. Idk if it’s the military in him or what but we have only been in 4 arguments in the past 3 years