bcharron12
Brandie
So my sons father left when my son was a month old literally 3 days after he turned a month. I’ve been having such a hard time trying to cope with it he still texts me and calls me everyday asking what I’m doing and how I am but rarely ever speaks of the baby. He stops by once a week to say hi and see him but it’s only for like 30 minutes and leaves but he says he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn’t want his family to know, his family didn’t accept me having a child. I have this false hope that he’s going to come back and we’re going to be happy but he doesn’t quite show it when he comes over and sits there barely playing or being close to his son. I don’t know what to do It’s been 3 months of this and soon I’m moving about 45 minutes from where I live now and I hate to think we really won’t see each other then and he won’t see his son. I still love him so much it’s been 4 1/2 amazing years with him considering we lost a child about 2 years ago and this is our miracle baby he just doesn’t seem to care.
5.2 лет
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Put him on child support. Move. Ensure you have custody where you live, if not, file for it. Move on. You and your child deserve better. If he wants to be a part of his son's life 45 mins is nothing and won't stop him.
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Welp. They'll have to accept paying child support! And the babies father is a child himself if he can't realize his family is rejecting HIS child and then needs to stay with them and get their approval over doing right by his child- boy bye
Unless he's just full of shit and leading you on. He doesn't have to own up to anything if he can blame his family. Either way he needs to grow up
Does his parents know of the baby?
Yes they do they just don’t accept him in their lives
@bcharron12, I’m sorry mama. They suck and your sons dad needs to put up for you guys talk to him about it.
I wonder if maybe he's began grieving the child again that you guys lost? Like he's scared to get close to another one? If he really loves you and wants to be with you, then he'll find a way to see you. If he doesn't make an effort, then try you darndest to move on, focus on your son.
@bcharron12 that's what it almost seems like to me, but like @laniejay and I both have said no effort move on. Focus on your son, he needs at least one parent present. His father needs to man up and tell his family to back off.
@arkycanchaser sorry about being so blunt, but that's how I was raised, tell it like it is. 😊
@arkycanchaser, I appreciate that sometimes it’s better off hearing it that way
Put him on child support. Move. Ensure you have custody where you live, if not, file for it. Move on. You and your child deserve better. If he wants to be a part of his son's life 45 mins is nothing and won't stop him.