I need some help! My boyfriend of a long time and who I live with was showing me something from pinterest and I noticed he had a notification from Grindr, a gay chatting app. For the past week ive noticed the symbol on his phone all the time. Idk what to do! Do I confront him about it and how?? Ive honestly been so sick the past week because I keep thinking about it. I just dont want to cause a fight and possible breakup, we have our whole life planned out and any day now I should be getting a ring. I'm so scared and just need some advice and help! Thanks!
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Definitely confront him!!! I would have lost my shit. I’d also find out if he’s sleeping around with these men. Sexual transmitted diseases can happen.
Definitely confront him, it's better to know now. Any straight guy wouldn't even look at something like that ! Sorry you're going through this but as hard as it is, it needs to be brought up.
If he's sleeping with men you need to break up! Are you really holding back from finding out he's a homosexual bc you dont want to rock the boat? Pp is right. A straight man wouldn't go near an app like that. Wake up girl!!
No straight guy is going to be on Grindr, not even just for shits & giggles. Trust me. If he has the app in the first place, he’s likely a homosexual. Or bisexual. But he’s into guys. And he’s looking at them, talking to them on a dating app.. that’s cheating & also incredibly disgusting since he’s hid this MAJOR part of him from you for so long
This is rough, I would definitely confront him & be open minded because it could be a very heart felt conversation, do you think he is into men? Is he questioning his own sexuality? Or is he just openly into both? What’s bigger then all this is that he’s seeking negative attention by being on an app to talk to others & crossing boundaries you just do not cross while in a relationship. You deserve the truth either way. I hope you guys can sit down and have a mature and honest conversation because you both deserve it. Good luck🙏🏽.
@krplummer99, yeah it’s definitely a hard one because the minute you bring up Grindr he will be on the defense he may just be curious but knowing you know he’ll feel he has to defend his sexuality probably get extremely homophobic to defend that he isn’t gay or whatever, either way I’d start off by saying you are open you love him and you are accepting of the truth and you both deserve to be happy in the end and you need to talk and explain and have a conversation like adults hopefully he is receptive and will actually let you in and open up im praying for you.
@krplummer99, no problem, if you ever need to chat I’m open to talk just dm 💜
Oh wow.. yes deff just say when he was showing you that thing on Pinterest that you saw the logo and want to be honest with each other and ask about it. Me and my so had a difficult time in the beginning of our relationship and if I hadn’t of confronted him, we’d of broke up and had even bigger problems. I’m grateful it all worked out but I know if I kept my mouth shut, it would of eaten me up inside. You can’t be with someone who doesn’t only have eyes for you.
Thanks! U dont have to tell me the details...but was it a similar situation with u and your so? How did he respond when u confronted him and how did u guys fix things?
I would definitely confront him about it. If he's on the app he may be questioning your current relationship. I personally would want to know earlier than later if something was going on.
Talk to him about it. You don't wanna be with someone or married to someone that's not totally in love with you
Deff comfort him ... you don’t wanna start a life that’s based on a lie . As hard as it is , it’s better to stop it now then continue and then having a harder time letting go in the future .
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