Mothers, I really need support this holiday.... I worked so hard to give my daughter a joyful and…

Mothers, I really need support this holiday.... I worked so hard to give my daughter a joyful and amazing Christmas now that she’s more into it. Her father and I were supposed to do Christmas together (we are split and are finding it difficult to co parent) so we both can see her. Her father was supposed to come over for Christmas but instead wants to meet me at my dads so he doesn’t have to drive the xtra 15 minutes, but my van broke down and have no way to my dads so I told him he’d have to come over. He got in a argument with me in front of our daughter last night at drop off blaming me for the vehicle breaking down. Now he’s saying he’s not sure if he’s coming cause I can’t make it to my fathers and he won’t drive the 15 minutes. Also is saying I never let him see our daughter , and that I’m selfish but I offered him two days out of my weekend and he gave up last two holidays. It breaks my heart for my daughter. It really does. Today’s supposed to be a joyful day and together. 😓.... My current boyfriend is furious on his actions as a father , being a father himself it really gets to him. Mean my current boyfriend will come get us bring us to his family’s Christmas if my ex doesn’t show up, which I’m thankful for she’ll have fun but wish my ex wouldn’t just paint him self as a amazing dad. I wish he would actually be respectful towards me and open his eyes to see what’s best for our daughter...