I’m really struggling right now & I just want to cry. I feel so terrible about myself & whenever my husband goes to the grocery store with me, he always creeps on other women. He swears he doesn’t but I watch him & I can’t blame him because I’m even embarrassed of myself. 😔
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Love yourself 1st,never let a man decide for you how beautiful you are inside and out.To your children your PERFECT ..pamper yourself make yourself a priority ;)
I lived this with my ex. I knew in my heart he was looking a little too much. I’m overweight and have hypothyroidism and borderline PCOS and genetically set to be fat 😩 so I have low self esteem anyway. He finally admitted to lusting after other women while we were out and about. Our marriage eventually ended because he was also into porn, on dating sites and talking to another woman.
But it’s not always that way. It sucks that other women can be immodest or just so beautiful (when we feel so ugly) but he may not see what you see. We all see the same thing differently.
I brought that baggage to my new marriage and I can tell my husband isn’t lustful like my ex but I still let it bother me way too much. I don’t think he’s the problem tho. It’s within me because of my self esteem. I know where you’re coming from tho. It’s so very hard
First off, you are BEAUTIFUL !!!
Don’t ever let a man make you feel less than. If he’s looking at other women, that’s something he wants to do and it has nothing to do with the way you look. I know it’s easier said than done, but always be confident, and be kind to yourself ! ❤️
Embarrassed of what? Stop it, you're BEAUTIFUL!! How could you not see that?
Thank you that means a lot. 😘 I honestly don’t know but I wish I could see myself in a different way sometimes 😏
@twinmommy1717 you've gotta give yourself a little more credit mama.
@twinmommy1717, when you walk somewhere you look at people too who pass by or in front... don’t let these thoughts to stress you. I’m sure he knows that he is lucky to have a woman like you next to him. That’s why he is your husband. If you don’t feel comfortable with weight, why not to go to gym or etc ?
I do go to the gym at least twice a week. Believe me if it was that simple, I’d be skinny. I struggle with PCOS, depression & anxiety among other Heath issues which definitely are not an excuse but I do try. I’ve been counting calories but it seems when I get into my depression, is when it all goes out the window 😏
Maybe he just looking around and unintentionally looking at them ? Like at every other person who pass by ?
Not sure. I try to tell myself that’s what it is but then I can’t help but wonder 😩
Why would you be embarrassed of yourself? You are so beautiful.
Here is how I see it... If I can see it (a pretty woman. One with cleavage. Or a nice ass) Ik he can! Be confident in yourself. Know your self worth. & seeing those women wont even be a second thought in your head. Yes they are there, but YOU are the one with the husband.
I get embarrassed of myself because of my weight. It’s always up & down. When I go through my depression, it goes up & then I get motivated then lose the weight again. It’s a never ending cycle! But the last part is very true 👌🏼 I just make those thoughts run through my head like “ I wonder what he’s thinking in his head when he sees them”. Idk I try not to let it bother me & I just keep it to myself but I really beat myself up about it
@twinmommy1717, I completely understand. My weight fluctuates with my stress levels as well. Im the opposite, When Im at a low, I lose my appetite, & will to do anything, which makes me lose weight...
I used to get that way, worried about other women... but you were made for him. So you’re above all those ladies anyways. Ik its easier said than done, but I hope you learn to see yourself in that way.
I openly acknowledge beautiful girls or girls that have a nice body with my boyfriend. Because I developed the mindset that if I think they're beautiful / sexy he does too. I had to remind myself a lot that it's just looks and something that can't be controlled. I think we all can get insecure sometimes, I do when I gain weight or know my body isn't as sexy as another's lol but I just have to fight that mental battle and it just motivates me now honestly.