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I told my husband if he keeps up the great work and stays clean we can start ttc again at his 3 month mark. I wanted to…

I told my husband if he keeps up the great work and stays clean we can start ttc again at his 3 month mark. I wanted to give him something to look foward to. And Lord knows we have been waiting for 6 years and 3 losses to welcome a little one into this world. When he got lost into the drugs we stopped trying bc I wouldn't allow that. It's been a long road! Now that he is getting better I think it's about that time. Prayers and good vibes our way please. Today is day 21.....that's 51 more days to go! We have been on our vitamins for about 2 months so we can make sure we're both healthy. I'm moving up to prenatal vitimans once I run out of my daily multivitamins. Just pray for us please. We have always wanted a family of our own and it will be very good for him! That's all he ever wanted and it breaks my heart. He was so good to my baby girl and he deserves a child of his own. When that day comes I'm going to cry like a baby with nothing but pure happiness.

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damn.it.red

Bitchy Trophy Wife 🏆👰🏼Мама двоих (9 лет, 10 лет)

Not trying to be rude but counselors at the rehab facility my husband went to recommended waiting until addicts were sober for one year before making life changing decisions.

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xryztalroze

XryztalRoze

Mama, saw your post yesterday and today, happy you're making strides and that he is doing well in the short term. Praying he does well for the long term. Are you seeking help with his recovery? I pray you are. This is a steep mountain to climb alone and I really pray you get the long term results and outcome you are working towards. It is important to make goals and I am happy you and your husband want a baby but I must caution you to rethink your goal. 3 months is a very short period of time. No matter what you decide my heart and prayers are with you for his success.

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mother.of.angels

AmandaМама троих детей

I do uderstand the concerns and I have thought about it before I made my decision. I have my reasons to why we decided to wait 3 months. My husband does see a counselor and has agreed with our decision.

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xryztalroze

XryztalRoze

@mother.of.angels Prayers and well wishes sent. Hoping that your decision is a sound one and works out the way you plan. Merry Christmas.

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householdceo

Kristen Мама троих детей

That's great

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catfish2220

💙 Autumn 💙Мама двоих (младенец)

Good for him! Getting clean has to be one of the hardest things someone can do. I have a couple family members who are addicts and refuse to quit for anything. He must have a lot of love for you! So happy for you guys!

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Keep the baby or Abortion.......

Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?