I know exactly how you feel. We have friends who keep insisting we leave our son with them because we “need” to have a date before we have our second. We’ve never left our son to go on a date. We just don’t feel we need to have time without him. We had a lot of that and are happy to include our son when we go out. We prefer the family time to time without him. It’s really hard to find people whose priorities align with yours especially when a lot of your friends don’t have kids quite yet. Just know you aren’t alone in how you feel. 💕
I have an ex best friend who has a son with her baby daddy and they really don’t know how to take care of him they have to be told certain things so it will get done and they get all pisst off when people say something it’s like if u tock care of ur child better nobody would say anything and I actually know how to take care of my son and I make sure he’s feed / diaper change/ has clean clothes and bath and get him the things he needs and the things I want to get him
My husband works and I stay at home and take care of our son and I do house work and buy the things we need and I buy my son things he needs and I want to get him and I take care of him 24/7 and I pay rent and my husband pays garbage power phone and our son is almost 4 months old
Yeah i stay at home to and I get so annoyed being cooped up all day, he works night shifts but when we’re together we’re doing other things. Most of true time I’m with our daughter and he’s off doing the errands. We need people like y’all lol