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How many women under 30 years old had a c-section (and if you don't mind, why did you)

How many women under 30 years old had a c-section (and if you don't mind, why did you)

I asked last week about how many had vaginal births, but honestly me and my hubby were drunk so I worded it wrong. but we got into an argument when I told him I wanted to have our 3rd kid before 27. my last 2 kids I was only in hard labor during pushing which lasted 15 minutes, so he is convinced that I can't have a hard labor over one hour of even a c-section. but I want to have our 3rd kid before I'm 30 because I'm absolutely terrified of any form of surgery and can't handle the idea of a c-section (you mommas who have them are AMAZING!)

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I was 24 and my son got stuck. His neck was at an angle and they didn't want to break it so it took 2 to get him out of me. 15 hours of labor first though

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householdceo

Kristen Мама троих детей

My last was a csection I was 29 but i'm 30 now. My son tore me and so they said if she was bigger id risk another tear possibly 4th degree. Then possibly be pooping myself and not being able to control it. Hearing this I wanted a csection because i didn't want that. I also had a stillbirth before that and they didn't want that happening again.

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I had two, one at 27 and one at 28. Both were planned. I was not a good candidate for induction and I had gone 39+5 with GD, baby was measuring large and didn’t want to risk complications (he ended up being 9 lb). My second was a repeat bc I didn’t care to try for VBAC so soon after my first (they’re 14 months apart).

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alyboo102293

Alyboo102293Мама четверых детей

I’ve had 4 csections & I’m 25, first was at 17, second 20 ,22 & 25. My first was a emergency and second was delivered at 34weeks she was also a emergency so after 2 the other 2 were repeat.

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nahizabri

Jessenia JesseniaМама троих детей

I had 3 csection. The first one was a emergency csection because it wasnt dilating and the other 2 because they said i had to have them

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half_dozen_mom

Quina Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I had a c section at 26 with my twins, because baby a was breech

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Regardless of how you deliver your baby, C-section or vaginal, you are still a mother. Too many people have…

Regardless of how you deliver your baby, C-section or vaginal, you are still a mother. Too many people have misconceptions about C-section moms. Some is unintentional but many of these uninformed comments can be quite offensive and hurtful. And they are completely missing the fact, that the most important thing is that both the mom and baby are healthy and happy.👶🏽 Here are six things you should not say to a C-section mom. 1 ⃣ “Too bad you couldn’t have a normal birth.” Many cesareans are performed because of health concers or in emergencies to ensure the health of the baby, mom or both. But it doesn’t matter. There should be no shame or regret over the C-section. 2 ⃣ “A cesarean is way easier than a vaginal birth.” It’s major abdominal surgery and many moms have gone through hours of labor and pushing before the C-section. Postpartum after a cesarean is not easier or better. It’s different and both should be honored. 3 ⃣ “A c-section is an awful experience.” Why put the spotlight on negatives? Many women with twins or preeclampsia, understand in advance they may have cesareans. Let’s focus on the blessing of birth and baby. 4 ⃣ “Sorry you missed out on giving birth.” Please no more mom shaming. #noshame 5 ⃣ “You’re lucky you had a c-section…” Having a baby is an intense journey for any mom. It’s not lucky or better. A C-section is one way of giving birth, but the outcome is the same. You get your beautiful baby in your arms. 6 ⃣ “You’ll never have a regular birth next time.” Approximately 60 to 80% of women are able to have a vaginal birth after c-section or VBAC. Each pregnancy and delivery is unique, and we should celebrate moms. Stop the mom shaming and the insensitive comments! Did you have a c-section? Share your story in the comments below 💕

●How old are you? ●How many kids do you have? ●How many kids do you want? ●& before what age you want to have your last…

●How old are you? ●How many kids do you have? ●How many kids do you want? ●& before what age you want to have your last child???? I'll start - {I'm 24, i have 2 boys now, if I would of have the boy and the girl I would of been DONEEE (These new generation kids are no joke man😂😂let me stop❤) but I still have hope (for the girl) so now I want 3 kids and THAT'S IT (hopefully it's a girl).......I Definitely WANT TO HAVE THAT THIRD BABY before I hit 30) :-)