Anyone else sleep in separate rooms from their SO after the birth of their baby? Me and baby are in one room and hubby…
Anyone else sleep in separate rooms from their SO after the birth of their baby? Me and baby are in one room and hubby in another because he has to work and doesn’t want a disturbed sleep, baby is a noisy sleeper as well. It just makes me so sad 😭 I really miss sharing a bed with my hubby. Even at the weekend he ended up going in the other room because baby was keeping him awake 😩
Casey·
When my boy was born my husband slept in the room with us. He was leaving the house at 5 and getting home at 8pm, 6-7days a week (baby was 4 months old) but I was breastfeeding so just tried to not wake him. Sometimes I was exhausted and would have to nudge him to settle our boy.
To be honest I would hate if he didn’t sleep beside us, WE chose to have a baby! He always told me we were both working long hours at that time so had to support each other.
Little one was in our room until 8 months
Miss My Sleep·
We do this in the early months if we need to. DH works 12 hr shifts so needs his sleep. Plus I breastfeed so he can't get up through the nights to do the feeds (I hate pumping lol
Stefi·
My OH occasionally sleeps in the spare room, mainly because I kick him out due to his snoring 😂 but he also gets up about 5am for work so needs a good ole kip, so will sometimes start off in our bed but if he gets too tired moves rooms. As hard as it is, I think it’s about communication and compromise and finding the right balance for you both . X
Georgi·
Baby is only a month old, he was born 2month early so wakes 2 feed every 2 -3 hrsHe makes little grunts and moaning sounds in his sleep sometimes usually if he has wind. I guess it will be for as long as baby is in the Moses basket and waking frequently 😞
Sara-Louise·
How old is your baby? And how are they a noisy sleeper exactly? Just out of interest. I feel sad for you. I get he wants rested sleep but does he miss sleeping with you? Maybe have a sit down and talk about it. If it's only short term and your finding other ways to be a couple and spend time together then it's not the end of the world. But long term I'd be worried if it was me.