I really need some advice. My husband is a recovering addict. He's only 11 days clean but things have turned completely around and my life is finally seeming like it's starting to be kinda normal. However when my husband was bad off he done a lot of hurtful things including stealing from me and cheating on me. Regardless of him being better I can not get his cheating on me out of my mind. It just plays over and over and it's killing me. What can I do to make it just go away. I am so depressed and I just can't take these thoughts any more. I love him so much and I know the drugs had a lot to do with everything of course that is no excuse!! I'm just so confused and so lost and I don't want to stress him outwith it and push him back to drugs so now isn't the time to talk with him about it.
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My advice as someone who loves an addict/recovering addict (who has done some unspeakable things to me) and as a recovering addict myself - I highly encourage you go to "open" meetings in your area. There is something beautiful in all the darkness, I promise. Hugs!!! Message me if you ever need to talk.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
So I just found out that my husband is sleeping with my sister and they are making fun of me.
I got cheated on last year by my husband last year while we took a “break” I know it’s not the same thing but it all hurt the same way because nothing really changed except our living arrangements. It took me a whole year just to get over it. Even though he cut her off and blocked her from everything. I kept picturing them together. But one night we had a long talk and I poured my heart out to him and told him how I felt. I got it all out and I felt better. I still get mad from time to time but not as mad as I did before.