Ladies I need to vent so since finding out I've been pregnant me and my boyfriend the baby's father have been having more and more problems then before I don't trust him at all due to past reasons all I've been doing is crying and struggling with depression again I'm drained I feel like I'm going to miss Carriage I'm extremely scared
I've struggled with this on a severe level with mine as well as the depression aspect of it all. Honestly, my doctor decided to put me on an antidepressant during the second trimester because of it all, so know that's an option - but if you ever need an ear or outside perspective of someone who understands, just send me a message! Hugs!!!
Do you have a history of miscarriage? If not and this is your first pregnancy I wouldn't stress too much about that happening, but you do need to relax. You see the thing is, men get sympathy symptoms during their SOs pregnancy and it can make it very difficult at times especially with your raging and unpredictable moods due to hormones but that's really all it is. I understand there have been issues in the past and you can't seem to trust him but it he seems to have been putting effort into your relationship and trying his best to make up for it, I wouldn't continue to hold it against him unless he messes up again. Pregnancy is hard for both people in the relationship, not just the mom's. Pregnancy calls for a lot of forgiveness and understanding between you and your partner in order to make it through. That's the trick to it. He has to understand and accept the fact that your hormones are going to make your moods unpredictable, and you need to understand and accept the fact that he will have sympathy symptoms and he won't be able to control it so he'll be moody too. Forgiveness is a and understanding are big necessities. I'm telling you this from experience after having 2 kids.
Message me if you want to talk! Depression is a bear and sometimes we, as women, need to talk to a person who isn’t in the thick of it. Prayers, love.
Baby clothes
Where has everyone been buying baby clothes? I think the majority of his clothes I've bought have been from Carter's but I'm thinking I want him to have some more original stuff too that everyone else won't have lol. I need more ideas. I've started looking at Old Navy and H&M. I need to find more cute zip up sleepers too! I honestly didn't like too many that Carter's had.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
So about 3 weeks ago I had a miscarriage... I haven't posted about it as it's been a crappy few weeks and been getting my head around it all.. well today I've been having clear mucus when I wipe (tmi sorry). It's been happening the past few days, I've been tired, appetite has been up and down, bloated etc.. I know the right thing to do is take a test but how long after a miscarriage is it possible to be pregnant? I'm not sure whether it's just ovulation that could be happening.. I'm so confused😩
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