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Anne Staples
mumtothree
Anne Staples·Мама троих детей
I need some advice, my boyfriend and I have a 2 year old daughter together, he has a 9 year old son with someone else. We haven’t had his son in just about two years. I bring my daughter once in a while over to her brothers house to see him, but the mom is now ignoring my texts. What should I do now? I want them to grow up together to know each other.. she lives with her other two siblings.
10.12.2018
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mumtothree
Anne Staples·Мама троих детей
I agree that maybe he should do the classes the courts ordered. But then we can’t afford to live... he pays 120 a week and we still make sure he has clothes gifts everything he could need. So I mean if he wasn’t paying child support he could afford the classes but then he would have to take time off of work. Like I said she has control and that’s court ordered. She is allowed to let him see him and she doesn’t I’ve asked I try to bring my daughter to see him as much as allowed.
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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей
Sorry, I'm the last person to by its the ex's fault. Fight like hell for your kids or own it. Don't blame the other person
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mumtothree
Anne Staples·Мама троих детей
And she really doesn’t let him, she can choose to let him if she wants I asked her if he could be in family photos this Saturday and she said it wasn’t in his best interest to see his dad
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mumtothree
Anne Staples·Мама троих детей
He did go to court at first. And that’s a long story. His mother started a huge argument about Santa and how apparently my older kids told her son there was no santa and she was pissed.. so we were fighting and his son said he never said anything well it ended up so bad that my boyfriend put his elbow through a window, she took him back to court and he has to do anger management classes to see him.. he refuses to take them. I’m just trying to see what I should do about my daughter seeing her brother since both parents are stubborn
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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей
So again its him not her. He'd do whatever it takes to see his kid if he really wanted
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mumtothree
Anne Staples·Мама троих детей
I went to court and they said siblings in the state of nh have no rights to each other, I would have to file a complaint against her and start a whole other problem as it is she won’t let him see his dad
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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей
His dad should have gone to court. Why isn't he fighting for his kid?

"She doesn't let him" is NEVER a valid reason. It's a lazy excuse.
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laniejay
Lanie Jay·Мама троих детей
You should have gone to court 2 years ago.
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