My OH is starting to drive me mad 🤦🏻 ♀ Literally never lifts a finger when he's off work and I'm…
My OH is starting to drive me mad 🤦🏻♀️ Literally never lifts a finger when he's off work and I'm expected to do everything. Literally makes a mess. And yet he will maybe get up with the baby for 2 hours in the morning and then go back to bed. Ill come downstairs and he hasn't lifted a finger. It's really starting to get me down now. I should enjoy him being off but it's just seeming to make more hard work for me. I'll ask him to do stuff I end up doing it as he still hasn't done it a week later 🙄 Sorry just need to rant
Kim Webb·
Yes hun I know how you feel. Xx🙌🏻
Megan Leigh··
It's starting to depress me. He keeps saying he will change and it never does. I can't keep doing it I'm running myself into the ground 🤦🏻♀️xx
Lauren Natalia·
Think a lot of us are in the same situation my partners the same! All I get outta him is I work 5 days a week I just laugh in his face! 😂😂😂🖕🏻 xx
Kim Webb··
@megan-leigh, if he wants to be picked up after like a child treat him like one lol xx
Lauren Natalia··
@megan-leigh, I know how you feel beaut I got the two boys! And I do eveything from food shopping cleaning cooking although he will cook sometimes but makes a huge mess that I have to clean! I do the washing make sure we have enough money ect. All he does is go to work and come home and the house is spotless! He does sterilise the bottles for me every now and then and makes bottles for Ashton whilst I deal with the boys so that helps in all fairness but when it comes to cleaning and stuff I hate how he does it so o end up doing it my self in the end anyway! My biggest pet peeve with aswell is he'll open drawers and leave them open and pull things out and leave it like that! When he takes his dirty work clothes off he'll leave them on the floor BY the wash basket but not in it! Right okay then I see the logic in that 😂😂😂😂 xxx
Megan Leigh··
it's so bloody annoying he will do things once in a blue moon it drives me mad. I can't keep doing everything it isn't fair at all. I'm going to tell him straight tonight because I'm sick of it. He's exactly the same xxx
Sara-Louise·
If you havent already try having another chat and come up with a compromise on what he can do to help. Things he can do each day to help you out. Just because he works doesn't mean he can't clean up after himself when he's at home. He's not a boy and your not his Mother. Yes I did the majority when I wasn't working but the hubby still did odd jobs as well. If he continues not to help id stop doing anything for him. Wash your own clothes, leave his etc. Cook for you and not him etc. When he starts to run out of clothes or get hungry he may just see how much you actually do for him. If that fails & he still refuses, I'd probably kick his arse out because I'm not a maid for anyone lol
Megan Leigh··
@mummyto2tinyhumans I've just told him over the phone that I'm doing absolutely nothing tomorrow and he has to do everything. Also my friend is coming round and we're having a glass of wine so he will sort Allaiyah out after tea. He will see how it feels haha xx
Lauren Natalia··
haha! Yes he'll soon see what you have to do xx
Megan Leigh··
think he's in shock haha he's text saying I'm sorry xx
Casey·
I spoke to my husband about this. We do mornings about to get up with our little boy, my long lie I’m always up by seven, hubby sometimes after ten. Baby boy always dressed ready to start the day when I get up with him but barely had breakfast when hubby gets up.
I spoke to him said he needs to stop doing nothing because I’m expecting our second, full discussion I understand he’s exhausted as I am too some days. I said I wouldn’t think twice about leaving because this is supposed to be a partnership! I also do it all myself six months of the year as he works away since the talk he’s been so much better, I now see he’s trying! Yes he’s not doing absolutely everything would do but that’s a man thing! I appreciate that he’s trying which is enough to remind me he is a good man and will try for his family!
So maybe try speaking to him
Courtney Paterson ·
Must be a man thing hun! 😑 xx
Megan Leigh··
I've invited my friend round for a nice glass of wine and dinner. He's got to look after Allaiyah and has to do everything tomorrow hahaha xx
Courtney Paterson ··
If I had mates I'd probably do the same thing :') aha xx
SarahRose💜·
Мама троих детей
My fella works 6 days a week n iWork 4 no way on gods earth ad allow him to act like one off me kids he does long days and still comes home and baths the baby n cleans up u have to compromise in a relationship or u will end up feeling like his mum !
Megan Leigh··
That's exactly how I feel haha!xxx