My OH is starting to drive me mad 🤦🏻♀️ Literally never lifts a finger when he's off work and I'm expected to do everything. Literally makes a mess. And yet he will maybe get up with the baby for 2 hours in the morning and then go back to bed. Ill come downstairs and he hasn't lifted a finger. It's really starting to get me down now. I should enjoy him being off but it's just seeming to make more hard work for me. I'll ask him to do stuff I end up doing it as he still hasn't done it a week later 🙄 Sorry just need to rant
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I've invited my friend round for a nice glass of wine and dinner. He's got to look after Allaiyah and has to do everything tomorrow hahaha xx
@megan-leigh If I had mates I'd probably do the same thing :') aha xx
I spoke to my husband about this. We do mornings about to get up with our little boy, my long lie I’m always up by seven, hubby sometimes after ten. Baby boy always dressed ready to start the day when I get up with him but barely had breakfast when hubby gets up.
I spoke to him said he needs to stop doing nothing because I’m expecting our second, full discussion I understand he’s exhausted as I am too some days. I said I wouldn’t think twice about leaving because this is supposed to be a partnership! I also do it all myself six months of the year as he works away since the talk he’s been so much better, I now see he’s trying! Yes he’s not doing absolutely everything would do but that’s a man thing! I appreciate that he’s trying which is enough to remind me he is a good man and will try for his family!
So maybe try speaking to him
If you havent already try having another chat and come up with a compromise on what he can do to help. Things he can do each day to help you out. Just because he works doesn't mean he can't clean up after himself when he's at home. He's not a boy and your not his Mother. Yes I did the majority when I wasn't working but the hubby still did odd jobs as well. If he continues not to help id stop doing anything for him. Wash your own clothes, leave his etc. Cook for you and not him etc. When he starts to run out of clothes or get hungry he may just see how much you actually do for him. If that fails & he still refuses, I'd probably kick his arse out because I'm not a maid for anyone lol
@mummyto2tinyhumans I've just told him over the phone that I'm doing absolutely nothing tomorrow and he has to do everything. Also my friend is coming round and we're having a glass of wine so he will sort Allaiyah out after tea. He will see how it feels haha xx
@megan-leigh, haha! Yes he'll soon see what you have to do xx
@mummyto2tinyhumans think he's in shock haha he's text saying I'm sorry xx
Think a lot of us are in the same situation my partners the same! All I get outta him is I work 5 days a week I just laugh in his face! 😂😂😂🖕🏻 xx
@megan-leigh, if he wants to be picked up after like a child treat him like one lol xx
@megan-leigh, I know how you feel beaut I got the two boys! And I do eveything from food shopping cleaning cooking although he will cook sometimes but makes a huge mess that I have to clean! I do the washing make sure we have enough money ect. All he does is go to work and come home and the house is spotless! He does sterilise the bottles for me every now and then and makes bottles for Ashton whilst I deal with the boys so that helps in all fairness but when it comes to cleaning and stuff I hate how he does it so o end up doing it my self in the end anyway! My biggest pet peeve with aswell is he'll open drawers and leave them open and pull things out and leave it like that! When he takes his dirty work clothes off he'll leave them on the floor BY the wash basket but not in it! Right okay then I see the logic in that 😂😂😂😂 xxx
@mummyto2tinyhumans it's so bloody annoying he will do things once in a blue moon it drives me mad. I can't keep doing everything it isn't fair at all. I'm going to tell him straight tonight because I'm sick of it. He's exactly the same xxx
It's starting to depress me. He keeps saying he will change and it never does. I can't keep doing it I'm running myself into the ground 🤦🏻♀️xx
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
At What Age Should a Child Make Their Own Breakfast?
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
Am I wrong for thinking he doesn't deserve to be in my sons life? He hasn't wanted anything to do with this baby until last week. When I told him I was pregnant he begged me to get an abortion. He didn't tell his family about the baby until last week. Literally. He hasn't given me money, diapers, anything at all for the baby. And suddenly he expects me to just let him have the baby 50/50. Like no.. It doesn't work that way, and he thinks he should get full custody?
My fella works 6 days a week n iWork 4 no way on gods earth ad allow him to act like one off me kids he does long days and still comes home and baths the baby n cleans up u have to compromise in a relationship or u will end up feeling like his mum !