I need some advice!!!!!! My son Raiden will be 2 months old on the 11th and it seems like he can't sleep without a bottle in his mouth. He will be dead asleep, I take it out and he starts screaming and with everyone in the house sleeping ontop of being sleep deprived I give it back to him in dont have a mother around to give me advice. I really need help!!!!!! I gave him a bath tonight at like 12am because he wouldn't sleep and even after that he still wants the bottle. I've tried a binki it worked for a while but as he gets older he wants less and less to do with it and I can't get him to suck his fist while he sleeps.( that is what he has substituted the binki with) I need help me and my boyfriend work and I can't being staying up all night holding a bottle or trying to get him to sleep without it. Any advice is greatly appreciated I'm borderline crazy
Sometimes hes drinking sometimes he will hold it in his mouth until I try to take it out and binki wise I tried 2 types but it seems like he will only take the ones similar to the one the hospital gave us
There are soothes that are just like a bottle nipple. Try those. My daughter did the same and I gave her the soother and it worked.
My baby turned 11mos just yesterday and she still has 1-2 bad nights where she fussed every time her pacifier comes out.. other nights she just reaches around for it in her sleep and puts it back it. It’s hard but it’s habit they get so liking unless you let them cry it out. It’s sucks but i think that’s the best way.. if you keep giving it to him he will end up taking advantage because he knows you’ll give it to him on demand. Struggle with the pacifier until he decides he wants it more or decide to do without both.
My grandmother told me that if you take the binki away at 4 months and dont give It back there's not issue with it
@shauna1998lindee, not every baby is like that.. mine wanted her bottle on demand and I made her switch to a pacifier. Around 4 months I could of taken it away but it was her comfort during the day if she would just be such a brat or fussy all day because I will give it to her only at night to help with taking it away.. she did it for weeks until I decided to give in.
Most parents actually have harder time taking it habit away because they get so use to it.. i would of definitely done it sooner but didn’t.. but now since she only had 1-2 bad nights in a week I don’t mind getting up every 1:30-2 hrs to put her pacifier back in her mouth.
Is he sucking and drinking while it’s in his mouth or he just wants to hold it in his mouth? Have you tried different kinds of binkys?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Trigger. Lost baby
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For Fun
With most of us in a sleep regression or exhausted from being working moms, or just plain bored I figured it would be fun to get a little game started... so who's up for 2 truths and a lie? It's easy.. you post 3 facts about yourself, 2 true and 1 lie and when you guess you post yours here's mine:
Religion Conspiracy/Theory
**This is not to bash peoples religion and beliefs but to talk about our own theories and ideas** I would like to discuss a certain topic that came to mind after talking to my SO. I know some of you ladies like a good conspiracy talk so i would like to have a good discussion and hear thoughts of others. So back story my SO friends got very offended when he mentioned not believing in god or religion and it got me thinking. Is religion a failing form of goverment cont...
I've got those binkies and he likes them but he wont take them to sleep it has to be a bottle