You’re incredibly lucky , ugh haha

Ugh. My MIL doesn’t have good intentions. Money problems, refuses to get a full time job, wants to get rid of her 9 year old daughter by sending her to her dad (mil’s Ex - he left his daughter long ago and never Keeps in touch. This broke my little SILs heart that her mom doesn’t want full custody), she always pities herself when she’s FULLY capable of changing her life, she tries to abuse welfare, she consistently manipulates all her kids to get what she wants. When I had my son and suffered some anxiety, she came over expecting to be fed etc (my son was DAYS old); and just today she asked for more money so that she can go record some music at a studio (and no, she’s not good, she’s horrible at singing)... sounds ridiculous, but I’ve gone from not minding her to just wanting to completely avoid her now. I feel sorry for my son too... he never wants to be around her which to me is a sign as well.