I felt like I needed to post this idk why but I need to get this out of my chest. I’m feeling pretty insecure about my self right now I feel like I’m way past the whole postpartum stage it’s been ten months since I had my first child and I thought I would be some what back to my normal body or close to it I didn’t breastfeed because I didn’t have enough milk supply so I wasn’t as lucky as some people I know it’s probably my fault gaining this weight I should have ate healthy when I was pregnant and I should be eating healthy now but my husband buys all these unhealthy snacks and it’s just tempting I am not saying it’s his fault because he’s not shoving the food down my throat I should have more self control I’m really want to commit to eating healthy and start working out even if it’s me alone going to the gym does anyone else feel this way? Any advice to self control? Any advice on losing weight ? Please help!!!
Thank you 🙏🏽 I’ll look up videos and read what’s good and what’s bad
First, be nice to yourself. So much of our self esteem is tied up in pur looks but that's not the best part of us.
Drinking lots of water
No, soda or super sugary drinks
Look into low carb diet
Consider cutting out red meat for awhile
Yoga or Pilates
Give yourself time
Ban the junk from your home
I tried the whole I don’t want to buy snack but he feels like I just don’t want to spend money on food maybe I’ll just buy fruits and food goods
@jennys2116
Explain to him you ARE buying food. Healthy foods. Tell him you need his support and his help making this lifestyle change. There are plenty of healthy snacks.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
My significant other hasn’t been to one appt. am I crazy for being bothered about it? I’m already depressed I’m having another baby. I didn’t even want anymore. I feel like I don’t have the support I need.
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
Probably a cray question to ask, but when did y’all start to wash your newborns clothes and putting them away? Like I’ve been getting clothes since I found out what I was having but I haven’t taken off tags yet or washed anything. I’m 30 weeks. It’s crazy because with my other 3 kids I didn’t really wash a lot of their stuff at first (got lazy) ALSO what laundry detergent did you use if you didn’t use Dreft? Because i saw Pyrex for Baby an didn’t know if anyone tried it??
So how do you Ladies feel about birth control. I'm against it cause I want my body to do what it naturally does. I've faced infertility issues so I'm not for it but my mom feels I should be on it after I have Tyson.
Postpartum doesn't have a time frame ...relax, pray for strength to stay away from snacks, do small stuff at home to get u going on working out.... Maybe find a group where women deal with postpartum as well to ask some questions