Only 8 weeks left until I deliver my first child and honestly, I’m so scared! I’ve always wanted a baby and to be pregnant and now that it’s actually here (almost) it’s terrifying! What if I’m not a good enough mom? What if I can’t handle the labor? What is labor going to feel like? What will it feel like? What if I poooo on the doctor when I’m giving birth?😳 just so many worries #56Days
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And as far as pooping or peeing on your doctor you won’t have a clue because you’ll be distracted by your bundle of joy or in the process of pushing. Everything will be fine
Breathe hun! It will be okay. Labor can be scary but it's not that bad for some. Just gotta remember to breathe through it all. Like for real, I had to be reminded constantly to breathe. Lol And don't worry about pooping on the doctor! It happens to them all the time and they literally don't care. They won't even tell you it happened! They just clean it up super fast and keep coaching you on pushing that baby. I peed on my doctor twice! 😂 As for being a good mom, don't worry about that either. Take it one day at a time and you'll do just fine. There will be days were the baby will cry non-stop and you'll feel so horrible but it happens to every mom. Just stop, take a deep breath and relax. Your baby can sense when you are stressed. If you need a few minutes, place the baby in a safe place and walk away to give yourself a minute. You will get through it all. 💕💕
Yep, I think everyone of us has these fears. This was me 7months ago. But the fact you worry already means you’re a great mom! I know people told me not to worry and it’s hard the weeks leading up to delivery but really try to enjoy the last days of you’re pregnancy. Try not to be anxious you’re body will know what to do when it comes time. If you poo you poo won’t be the first and not the last time for the Dr. And when they hand you that beautiful baby for the first time everything else just fades. Ahh I get tears in my eyes just thinking about when my son was born. It was stressful. But it all worked out. And I’m hoping the same will happen for you ( expect the stressful part). You’ll do great! Like I said enjoy you’re last moments of complete alone time.
Labor is always different for everyone but our bodies are made for it and after I gave birth to my first I felt like wonder woman and I could do anything! I was pretty proud of my body at that time. And that fact that you are worrying about not being a good enough mom means you will be the best mom you can be to your child and there will be so so many days you will feel like you're failing and cant do anything right but then you're child will somehow remind you that they love you and to them you are everything.
Welcome to motherhood and always wondering if you're messing up your kid 🤪
Congratulations on your bundle of joy:) you will be a amazing mom dont worry!
Breathe, relax. I just gave birth for the first time last Thursday and it was the most beautiful, rewarding thing I’ve ever done in my entire life. I had no birth plan and went with the flow. I tried holding off pain medications for as long as I could and ended up begging for epidural and got that it was the best decision I made. The contractions were too far intense for my own good. Once you’re in labor and give birth your motherly will kick in and you’ll know what to do. I wish you the best of luck and congratulations