Would you say your husband come first or your children?

My grandmother had 8 children and she told me she would always make her husband a great breakfast first with pancakes, bacon, eggs and sausage. She told me the kids would get oatmeal or cereal after her husband was done eating. I never understood why she did that until I got married. Now I wouldn't go as far as to feed my husband a nice breakfast and give my kids cereal but I do believe your marriage always comes first. There's so much power in a strong marriage.

My child

My children. I love my SO, but he already knows, my babies will always be first.

My husband comes first but that doesn’t mean I won’t always take care of my children’s needs and wants because my husband knows our children can’t do for themselves so we both will always be there for them.

Children, my husband is an adult and can look after himself, my children can’t. My husband does come before anyone else in the world aside from our children though

Children!! But the marriage still has to be watered

I peep how women be putting these men first and these same men won’t put them or their children first .

My kids come first before any man .

My child comes first because he is dependent on me. My husband is an independent adult. It doesn't mean I love my child more, but he comes first and that is the same way dh thinks. My relationship is still just as important as the relationship I have with my son though.

Children come first!! Not all kids become selfish spoiled brats. It all depends on how you raise them. That’s just my opinion 🙂 a grown ass man can take care of himself a child cannot.

You can’t really compare. They have their own place in our family.

I don’t want my children being raised to believe that the world revolves around them. It’s not healthy. I’m trying to raise humans that can contribute to society in a positive manner. I’m also trying to show them what a healthy marriage looks like. I don’t agree with everything this article states but it makes some good points. If my parents would have always put me first, I would have been a spoiled, selfish brat. Luckily they didn’t and it taught me to be considerate of others.

Children 100%.

Children

My child .... My husband can take care of himself my child cannot ...

Children always come first before anyone

Our children. He would say the same.