Is it normal for fathers be less attended in their role of helping the woman after birth?

It can be normal. My husband just isn’t a fan of babies and can’t really connect with them. With our son he was around all the time so he helped out a lot. With our daughter he’s rarely around so I don’t get much help. But now that our son is older he really connects with him and prefers to help with him rather than the baby. I get where he’s coming from though because I’m really not a fan of the baby phase either.

Mine is afraid of newborns lol he is afraid he will hurt them so he doesn’t like handling them too much so the changing and bathing is on me, I breastfeed so that’s on me too. He does attend to my needs and the older children tho and helps out more with the baby as the baby gets less fragile looking/feeling.

Mine helps when I ask him to step in or if he sees I am struggling. Other than that he is a freebird able to do what he wants. But he does put in time when I don't ask. It's just his choice especially because he didn't want a 3rd.

My husband has gone back to working as soon as we got the babies home every time.

I guess it depends. My husband doesn’t do anything with the new baby except the occasional snuggle but he makes sure the older kids have exactly what they need and keeps their attention.

Mine has been the primary caretaker of my 2 toddlers while I attend to the new baby. He also takes shifts with me at night so we both get sleep.

My Hubss also helps with everything. If he wouldn’t change a diaper diaper or feed our son I’d divorce his ass. Lol.

My husband helps in everything equally. Except feedings because his boobs don't do what mine do.

Depends on what it is. My husband doesn’t do diaper changing, bottle feeding or baths... mhmm I guess that’s everything🤷🏽‍♀️

My girls dad helped me so much especially because I had baby blues.