To the mom who wants to have Lots of kiddos. Yes it’s an amazing thing, but it’s also very hard. As a mom of 5 and a husband that works 7 days a week from 7am to 8 pm. I’m exhausted half the time. But I wouldn’t change it for the world. Have as many as you want who cares what people say or think. People make faces at us all the time. But if they aren’t raising my babies then their input isn’t needed. Have that big family girl. The house will be a mess but it’s only a mess for a little while because they will grow up and move out and then the house can stay super clean and the decorations won’t get broken. 💕
I feel ya girl, I am fed up with those remarks I hear wherever I go with my two toddelor boys, "oh is this your last one?" Now why do I need to share that with you, I don't even know you. I feel like if I wanted to, I should be able to. But right now I am about to have my 3rd, and I don't care what they think or say. I will have a big family when I'm ready, and so be it if my husband gives me 10 or 6 or whatever. When people take it as far as, "he should get a bisectomy or you should get your tubes tied." It makes me get very defensive, like is that really your business? No, so go somewhere else and leave me alone
I never understood why people give other people with a lot of kids snotty looks. God said be fruitful and multiply and that’s exactly what people are doing, it’s a good thing! It’s a blessing to have a big family and it’s sad that other people can’t see that, if pregnancy wasn’t so hard on me I would have more but I’m just so sick that I’ve not been able to get out of bed or leave the house for weeks because of being so sick and it makes me feel like a selfish mom because I can’t hardly play with my son because I’m so sick, I’ve had to go to the hospital once already because I was vomiting blood so my husband has had to help out a lot with our son especially with playing with him because I’ve not been able to it’s been really hard on me. I applaud the women out there who have a lot of kids and are able to do normal everyday mommy things with them while pregnant. I personally love seeing people with a lot of kids because it’s just amazing to me how strong those women are!
Yes girl im about to have 4 and i want more my mom b saying things here n there but i put her i. Her place cuz i always wanted a big family from the moment i knew about having a family n ur right to me my kids are such a blessin and i wouldnt change it for the world
Thank you for these words!! I’ve always wanted to have a big big family.
If I would've started earlier, I would've had as many as I could afford... But I got a bit of a late start and these two have aged me 10 years lol!!