So here is an update.....me n hubby went to couple therapy just past Sunday. We talked and had a mediator. We got out everything that we been going through that was keeping us from being happy. He actually was active and listened n gave me a chance to talk. It went very well the mediator have us some advice n actually got on my hubby bc he still havr baggage from his ex wife time. The person who mediated us was the person who married us anf also dealt with my hubby and his ex wife when they was married. He also help raise me believe it or not. So he know my family very well n told my hubby he going to miss his upgrade.. He told him I'm his upgrade n he will drive me away if he don't let his past go. He told him to be the example of how to act when we get into a disagreement. He needs to walk away. He suggested us to make a list when ever we get upset at each other n leave it where the other can see n discuss it when the upset person is calmed down. We had a very long heart to heart talk to the point i saw him cry for the very first time. I think we can make it. He promised there will be no more comparing temper tantrums ("rages") n o tolf him i will let my daughter n him deal with my ex( daughter dad) i will no longer talk to him as much or as of now none unless its an emergency. I came back home from my parents house with open arms. He told me he have an new appreciation towards. I think it took someone we look up to.to show us the error of our ways. He keep asking me if I'm glad to be home n he loves me. O love him too.
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Why would you leave the communication with your daughters father up to your husband.? I agree not speaking to him all the time but dealing with her dad is your responsibility and not his.
Personally, I think they should both be communicating with the daughters father but perhaps it’s toxic to her for her to speak with him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hubby just left for work we on better term this morning we talked every thing over he say he sorry about talking to me that way and don’t want to loose his family over something stupid
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
So mamas I need advice. We take our son to the gym with us and they watch him in their kid care. Well this will be the third time that we’ve gotten called in there to get him because he’s supposedly doing something we’ve never seen or heard of him doing. When I went in there, the girl was holding him, he was in tears and so happy to see me and wanted me to pick him up. I told her I wanted to see him doing what he was supposedly doing. He went on to play with a toy nicely so I told him to come to...
We discussed it later buy i think for right now itd for the best. Her dad gave her a phone ao he can talk to her n my ex tries to over step the boundaries sometimes by constantly call me n it's disturbing my house so i will limit hus calls to her phone n to be reasuring to my hubby I'll let him take calls from my ex. My ex tries to do things that keep drama going so he calls me all the time and just talk so i have to keep peace in my home so that was my solution