Is it normal for toddlers to randomly hate their dad?? My son has a full blown meltdown if his dad even approaches him. Nothing bad has happened between them.

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Melinda Westad·Мама двоих (7 лет, 11 лет)

Anything goes for toddlers 😩 They will go back and forth with which parent they prefer. My daughter almost always prefers me over Daddy and literally screams like she’s being tortured to death if he tries to do anything for her or with her. Even simple things like wiping her after potty, or picking out clothes, or getting her a water cup. She acts like she hates him but deep down she loves him so much and will randomly go up to him and want to snuggle and want nothing to do with me.

Toddlers also compete for their parents’ attention so they will act up and see which one is going to give in.

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

Sounds like what my son is doin g

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Melinda Westad·Мама двоих (7 лет, 11 лет)

@kambam, I’m sorry, I know it’s so hard. Believe it or not it actually gets worse at age 3 😫😫😫 Just when you think there’s no way this can get any worse, it does 😳 I’ve had to get aggressive with my daughter just to get thru to her because she goes on a rampage and there’s no stopping her. She’s 4 now and everyone tells me that’s when it starts getting better so I’m crossing my fingers.

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

Lord I hope not 😓 my work is already suffering from all this. I need my good boy back

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Leah·Мама четверых детей

Are you and his dad together and live in the same house?

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

No. Separate.

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Oh okay haha maybe just being a sassy ass toddler. They tend to do so lol 😝 probably nothing to worry about :)

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Teresha Hollis ·Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

Sometimes my daughter would have meltdowns on me if I even looked like I was going to touch her or say anything. But now she's really attached 🤔

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

Seriously so many damn moods lol

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Oh really. Strange then 🤔 .. do you and his father get along well when together?

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

We try. We've definitely been doing better. My son is also just a complete asshole lately lol. More with me now than usual and now his dad.

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Does he see him often?

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

Every day pretty much

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Leave him alone with his dad for some time he'd no choice but to learn to get along with him lol

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kammy·Мама сына (9 лет)

Yeah I mean theyre alone sometimes. I have a feeling its just when im around. I dunno but poor guy lol

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