kammy
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Is it normal for toddlers to randomly hate their dad?? My son has a full blown meltdown if his dad even approaches him. Nothing bad has happened between them.

1

Комментарии

2sweetie
Melinda Westad·Мама двоих (младенец)

Anything goes for toddlers 😩 They will go back and forth with which parent they prefer. My daughter almost always prefers me over Daddy and literally screams like she’s being tortured to death if he tries to do anything for her or with her. Even simple things like wiping her after potty, or picking out clothes, or getting her a water cup. She acts like she hates him but deep down she loves him so much and will randomly go up to him and want to snuggle and want nothing to do with me.

Toddlers also compete for their parents’ attention so they will act up and see which one is going to give in.

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Sounds like what my son is doin g

Нравится Ответить
2sweetie
Melinda Westad·Мама двоих (младенец)

@kambam, I’m sorry, I know it’s so hard. Believe it or not it actually gets worse at age 3 😫😫😫 Just when you think there’s no way this can get any worse, it does 😳 I’ve had to get aggressive with my daughter just to get thru to her because she goes on a rampage and there’s no stopping her. She’s 4 now and everyone tells me that’s when it starts getting better so I’m crossing my fingers.

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Lord I hope not 😓 my work is already suffering from all this. I need my good boy back

Нравится Ответить
_leah
Leah·Мама четверых детей

Are you and his dad together and live in the same house?

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

No. Separate.

Нравится Ответить
hannakimberly

Oh okay haha maybe just being a sassy ass toddler. They tend to do so lol 😝 probably nothing to worry about :)

Нравится Ответить
teresha_h
Teresha Hollis ·Мама дочки (1 год)

Sometimes my daughter would have meltdowns on me if I even looked like I was going to touch her or say anything. But now she's really attached 🤔

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Seriously so many damn moods lol

Нравится Ответить
hannakimberly

Oh really. Strange then 🤔 .. do you and his father get along well when together?

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

We try. We've definitely been doing better. My son is also just a complete asshole lately lol. More with me now than usual and now his dad.

Нравится Ответить
hannakimberly

Does he see him often?

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Every day pretty much

Нравится Ответить
del_1548775477_meemeeh

Leave him alone with his dad for some time he'd no choice but to learn to get along with him lol

Нравится Ответить
kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

Yeah I mean theyre alone sometimes. I have a feeling its just when im around. I dunno but poor guy lol

Нравится Ответить