I get the whole not disrupting their lives thing but what about you? This reminds me so much of my relationship with my ex. I hope for your sake he steps it up or you gain the courage to speak up for yourself.
I know how hard it is when there are children. I was not going to be miserable for the next 18 yrs. I left and now everyone is so much happier. It took over a year to gain that courage though.

@mhbb3, I can’t say it hasn’t crossed my mind. And I did leave once, he promised to change and did, until we got evicted a month later and had to move in with family and now the stress of “not being able to provide” has him being an asshole again. So I’m sticking through the rough patch to see if things will get better again.

@blessedbembc
Maybe it will. If he changed before he could change again. I know when I lost my job and was having a hard time finding another, it definitely affected us. I hope he does and I hope you fight for your happiness too.

@mhbb3, not so much lol. He’s a narcissist and I know that, so he’s not loving or anything, just wasn’t expecting the response that I got

@blessedbembc Okay I dont want to pick apart someone else's relationship so please tell me to hush if necessary but, does he meet any of your needs? Physical ,emotional, financial, spiritual?

@mhbb3, um, not really no. But I choose to stay so it’s my own fault. I don’t want to drag the kids through the coparenting and such. Especially when he wouldn’t do it. Not the right way anyway. He thinks it’s bullshit that moms get to keep the children. Even though he doesn’t want the responsibility of taking care of them. Lol

🧐🧐🧐 I would be like sex wasn’t overrated when u was making these kids 😂😂😂

@mamizamorano17, I know! I mean he hasn’t been jack-rabbit sex with me since I became pregnant with our son, before that we had sex every day, but since then it’s been maybe 20 times a year

@blessedbembc, 🧐🧐 mmm well that’s crazy . Maybe just sit down and talk to him about it