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Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

Would you end your 1yr and 5months relationship with your partner who’s the father of your baby... I just wanna it to be…

Would you end your 1yr and 5months relationship with your partner who’s the father of your baby... I just wanna it to be me and the girls now I don’t wanna be in a relationship anymore...

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monstermommax3

JasmineМама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

Well for starters it will never be just you and your girls because he is their father, he has rights, and they deserve to have their father in their life. What did he do to cause you to leave? Would you be leaving him even if you didn’t have children?

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mhbb29

Melissa Мама сына (3 года), беременна (35 нед.)

Depends. This cant really apply to any of us because its your relationship. Your reasons for ending it. I rarely see you post anything positive about him. In fact i dont think you ever have.

If you dont love him and want to be with him dont string him along. Just let him go.

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mimixtmn

MimiМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I would wait until after the baby was born and if it was still what I wanted yes I would end it. I’m saying wait until after the baby cause those pregnancy hormones can be crazy and it may not be what you really want and it may be your hormones making you unhappy not necessarily your relationship. As long as he’s no abusive that is.

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3boylife

Kristina LuleМама троих детей

That’s your decision ma!! If it’s going be better off for you and you don’t need him to help raise your babies! Then do it a relationship don’t need to be permanent

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rndmshtt

- - - - - - - - -Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (21 нед.)

It depends on the situation. I ended my engagement with my SO recently. We had almost called everything off but we have decided to working things out. He is the father of my kids. We have been together for 12 years now, going on 13 next year.

Sometimes it takes more than just loving a person to be with them. You need to be with someone who you are compatible with. Staying in a relationship for the sake of the kids but neither of you is happy is not a good thing. It will just do more damage in the long run. Plus that would not be a good example for your kids. If you both are willing to work it out and make some changes ( not just all “ talk “ ) then its worth a try. If not, as hard as it is. You might be better off starting over.

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householdceo

Kristen Мама троих детей

If I'm not happy or there is a good reason then yes. My man and I been together 11yrs but 3 yrs ago we split for a few mths because he acted crazy and I wasn't happy. We got back together and closer then ever now.

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prestonjeanetta0120

Jeanetta Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего

If your really unhappy then I’d let him go why stay in something that’s toxic when you can be happy and stress free !! Now he’s the father so you’ll have to deal with him as long as he wants to be apart of y’all babies lives !! So if you choose to go separate ways then hopefully y’all can co parent together as friends

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ss3mom

Ss3momМама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)

So I agree with the others. If you’re not happy then yes u should end your relationship. But he will always be around because he’s their father. I see you’re pregnant with your 2nd. So u plan on having him there for the birth? He does have rights to see them. There’s really no way we could answer this for u. U two need to figure it out together. I’m sorry you’re unhappy. I hope u can be soon

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ss3mom

Ss3momМама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)

@meka2013, well that’s good. At least he can be there for the birth and to help out afterwards. Have u talked to him about this yet?

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meka2013

Meka Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (37 нед.)

@ss3mom, we’ve talked but to me it seems like it went in one ear and out the other smh it’s like I’m done trying if you not gonna try

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ss3mom

Ss3momМама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)

@meka2013, yea I hear ya. It’s hard when the other person won’t change or get better. U both deserve to be happy so u have to do what u need to do to make that happen. Even if that means break up. Also your girls deserve to see u happy. They need a happy mom and dad to be happy themselves. Best of luck to u and your kids!!

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bigmama18

Yo mamaМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

If I wasn’t happy, yes I would.

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delete-please

Delete Please.

I think if you’re not happy and just want to focus on being a mother to your daughters you should definitely end the relationship. You both deserve to be happy and if you’re no longer invested in the relationship or he isn’t I would cut ties and just focus on having a healthy and stress free

co-parenting relationship.

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monstermommax3

JasmineМама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

Well for starters it will never be just you and your girls because he is their father, he has rights, and they deserve to have their father in their life. What did he do to cause you to leave? Would you be leaving him even if you didn’t have children?

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3boylife

Kristina LuleМама троих детей

@milnera2014, and who are u

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monstermommax3

JasmineМама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

@3boylife, I literally just went through a custody case. So you can step back. Any father is allotted parenting time. Doesn’t matter if they’re the shittiest dude on the planet.

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3boylife

Kristina LuleМама троих детей

@jhalsted1995, ok

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mrs.jay__x

mrs.Jay__xМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

Depends what he did...

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