So I guess I'm supposed to take care of our 7 week old newborn, our 19 month old, cook food for everyone, do all the laundry, and clean this entire house inside and outside all by myself.. not to mention the youngest is breastfeeding.. how in the world am I supposed to do all of this crap by myself?
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@rebelprincesz24: That is completely unacceptable. I'm trying to think through my response to this because the last thing I want to do is say something hurtful or rude however, the only resolution I see in this case is to get rid of the roommate.
I hope whatever led to you having him in your home will resolve itself so that him moving out will absolutely be an option for you. I am so sorry that you are in such a situation, as your responsibility is to your children and husband, not whatever random friend he may bring home.
Redirecting in a more positive manner, have you set them both down to discuss your expectations of them and the limits that you may have?
I hope they are mature enough to sit and discuss things and to take responsibility for their actions.
But as far as actually cleaning the house when they are at work and helping you with ideas for your babies I am here if you like.
@xryztalroze thank you and when we move the roommate is supposed to move out as well and live in his own place.
@rebelprincesz24 : You're welcome. I really hope things get better for you soon. Keep in mind that having the life we desire is all about having goals and striving for excellence in all we do. An awesome life doesn't just come to us. We must work to make it happen. You can have the life you want with the right attitude and hard work. I have learned, and am leaning this as each day passes. Just when you think you're too tired to go on is when the finish line comes into sight. Don't give up. Don't give in. If you can't go to your husband and have a conversation to get the changes you need, be the change you need. Eventually he will see the difference and kick in gear. If not, at least you are doing your best and your children will see the example you have set for them. Best of wishes!!!
You’re going to let the mess go, let the laundry pile up and just get the babies to survive the day. Then when it’s crazy backed up, you’re going to tell your husband what an ass he is and to pull his weight.
When I was still pregnant and couldn't do anything that's what happened but neither him nor the roommate done a thing about the mess, they waited on me to do everything. Just because they work they expect me to clean up after them.
Girl that's why I had to stop breastfeeding at 3 months because I need to get stuff done and it's so hard when breastfeeding .
Except my 15 month old is still breastfeeding so I hope she let's me go before new baby comes
Oh man that sounds overwhelming. I’m so sorry. I kinda know how you feel, I felt overwhelmed myself after having my LO and you have a lot more on your plate than I do 😭 sending you good vibes
I do it everyday. That's the life of a stay at home mom who takes pride in her home and family. It's a tough job within a job but completely doable. You can do it. You just have to find your rhythm and routine and then it will become easier. If you want suggestions or guidance, let me know, but it's completely doable!!!